[urgeok]

i care enought to respect the peace of others .. re noise - swearing .. etc.
i dont care about grooming other than being clean and presentable.
i have to be clean, my clothes have to be clean.
i might not shave or wear anything but jeans, sneakers, and a tshirt though.

if i go to a wedding or other formal event i dress appropriately out of respect.

i dont go out of my way to hurt people so i might be bothered for 2 seconds if someone doesnt like me the way i am - but thats it - if they dont - and there's no good reason for it - fuck them.
if i did something i wasnt aware of - or was misunderstood and that was the cause of the rift then i'll do what i can to set the record straight ..i care enough for that.

unlike some others i've dealt with - i dont want to steamroll through life not caring about the people around me .. i care enough to be a good citizen ... if someone doesnt like the way i look, or laugh, or the pitch of my voice - oh well, i'll live. they're probably as stupid as dirt anyway :p