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i think there comes a time when people arent going to be considered sexy .. its physical and mental.. not everyone - but i'm sure that becomes a part of the majority peoples past at one point.
being sexy is 50% mind and 50% body .. you need a dose of both.
and before people start pointing out exceptions .. yes i know there are exceptions.
some men find 300 pound short women sexy - the majority do not -
no matter what her frame of mind is re. her own sexuality ..
same goes for 300 pound short men ..
or wrinkled old people ..
love and caring doesnt need to dissapear .. but most of us have a pretty definition in our heads as to what we find sexy - and that isnt as all encompasing as people like to pretend it is.
(there's a lot of feelgood bullshit slung around here a lot of the time - a lot of folks are more concerned with portraying themselves as compassionate and all knowing - rather than getting to the truth - i think thats when Murderdoll goes on her rampages .. no matter how gritty she gets - there is always a big grain of truth in what she is saying - and she knows bullshit when she sees it - and has no fear of pointing it out)
oops - i got distracted.
like i was saying - the vast majority of the world wouldnt find an old wrinkly person attractive or sexy... unless they are very wealthy - all of a sudden - wow they look pretty good !
i do know a lot of guys that define beauty with extremely thin parameters ..
the only like asian women, they only like the california blonde pamela anderson clone look ... etc .. i know of all kinds of people like that ..
thank god i dont have them .. there is no body type or race or colour or 'type' of person i would stick with - no 2 girlfriends of mine have been the same ..
but - there is a range that i wouldnt find attractive sexually no matter how amazing the persons mind might be .. they'd be a great friend but i couldnt see them in a sexual light ...
i'm also well aware of the fact that the majority of women out there would feel the same about me ... which is cool ..
we should be looking for the people we're compatable with anyway.. i've done remarkably well.. (and i've never had money ! :D
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