[urgeok]

i think it's goofy


i'm not a 50's male neandrathal ..
I dont think there is anything unnatural about being gay.
i believe in 100% equality between men and women - and all races, creeds and colours.

I have worked for women and my wife makes more $$$ than i do.
I dont see any of this as a threat to my masculinity.

I changed more of my babys diapers and was closer to him than my wife until he was 2. i clean up after dinner and help cook if needed (if not i'm working on something else in the house or spending time with my son)

Spending time alone with my kid IS NOT babysitting - it's being a parent to my son. I freaking hate it when dads refer to spending time with their kids as 'babysitting'.

I dont sit around talking sports/nascar with my friends - or how we'd like to fuck the girl on the 5th floor in marketing .. we actually talk in depth about the human condition, movies, books, relationships, etc ..

none of these things make me feel any less a man.


but .... i think there is something fucking weird about a guy who wants to dress like a woman ...and it's not halloween.

i also think men who are straight - but act/talk effeminatly ... are weird.
never been comfortable with fence sitters.

also - in a related matter - i think the concept of being in touch with your feminine side is complete idiotic shit.

i dont believe in a female side or a male side .. we're all human and we all want the same things ..

like i said once before there is only 2 mental/emotional differences in the sexes.

1) how we fight/argue/discuss

2) the whole shoe buying thing.


i believe in some parts of the world - even these differences disappear



edit : i missed part of the question..


how would i respond if i saw a buddy like that ?

"what the fuck are you doing wearing a dress ???!! you sure as hell dont have the legs for it!!!"