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One of my best friends is a boy. We have a complicated, tumultuous relationship. We fight all the time, but the friendship that we've formed is ridiculously strong. His dad had been terminally ill since around the time we met (2 years ago). About a month ago, we got in a fight and I kept sending him really rude, hurtful messages on voicemail, texts, facebook, AIM...anyway I could piss him off. He wasn't replying which was just egging me on, until finally he called and said his dad had just died.
Since then, I have not only changed the way I act around him, I've started to think before I fight with anyone.
Most of the stuff on this thread is just human nature. We don't think before we act.
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