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So tell me...Am I insane that even after what she did to me, I not only feel sorry for her, but wonder if I could've prevented it?
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No. You're not insane, you're just a decent human being with a good heart. But I really feel for you on wondering if you're crazy to still care about the well being of someone who hurt you. (And for what it's worth, I don't think there's anything you could have done to prevent it. We all make our own choices, and bear the sole responsibility for them.)
I was engaged to a guy who had been in an abusive relationship. About three months before our wedding (which beats the hell out of three months
after!) he ended up going back to try again with is ex. He called me about a month later saying she hadn't changed and wanting to get back together.
Twice over the past year he's gotten in touch with me and been very upset/unhappy. It makes me feel a gut-wrenching emotional cocktail of sorrow and pity. I wish I could either hate him outright or feel nothing towards him. Part of me still loves him, but in the words of the immortal Hank Hill: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice and I'm kickin' your ass!" :p
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Originally posted by Miss Olivia
I would go watch "Turds in a Bowl" if Samuel L. was in it.
He never fails to entertain me.
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Ah-hahaha! Me too. He was actually the only thing that made the movie Sphere worth watching to me.