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Originally posted by Haunted
We all make our own beds, so to speak. I don't think that it's something that you should agonize over. She chose this person over you. You can't make her decisions for her...
Were I you, I wouldn't become involved. Old feelings might get stirred up. It would get ugly for both of you really fast, plus you don't need Mr. Clinically Antisocial breathing down your neck. You can't afford to get involved, and I think it would do more harm than good for both of you...
I just hope with all my heart, no matter what a bitch she was to you, that she gets help and gets out before he kills her. No woman deserves that kind of shit.
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Boy, tough call. If you got involved personally, you'll run the risk of just ending up getting back together and for whatever sick reason, she'll probably leave you again for him. Just my prediction.
Do you know her family and/or friends? Are they trustworthy? If yes to both questions, you might want to talk to them about it and make sure they know about it. Unfortunatly, she probably isn't really going to listen to anybody, we as humans are stubborm by nature (I think) and have to learn our own lessons. But considering the danger she seems to be in, I think a talk with the people you know care about her, might not be a bad thing. And that all depends on your rapport with those people. Not an easy situation.
Just watch out for yourself first, no matter how difficult that may be. Keep us in the loop, we're weird but we're not stupid (don't mean to generalize, but I think most people would agreed with that).