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Originally posted by monalisa
Cripes if I could find a nice guy with long beautiful hair, I'd be in heaven.
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Well...You COULD share mine;)...But..I don't share :p :D
Seriously though...Dustin is the complete opposite of my ex (guess that means
I learned what to look out for too, huh?)...My ex was the epitome of 'asshole' (read about Leo, take out the worst traits, multiply them by 100, and you have MET my ex...)..He was a union pipefitter/construction worker, drinker, who loved to pick fights with people (I still have the old truck with the 'man's head-sized' dent in the side of it)...BUT...He makes decent money ($1,200-$1,500 a week)...So, whenever there was a problem, that was the ONLY thing he could say, "I make good money, I work hard..." never even realizing that money didn't mean SHIT to me, and it was ALL he had......He didn't however mention that he spent MOST of that money on himself, while telling me that
I needed to "cut down on the bills"...You know, all those frivilous things like electricity, water, telephone, shit like that:rolleyes:
Anyway..I'm, not gonna go on and on (I could), because you guys already know EXACTLY what kind of person I'm talking about...Oh, and he always keeps his hair very short ;p...lol
Dustin, on the other hand, is completely different....He never starts shit with anyone, he can't stand it when people argue, he'll not only leave the ROOM, he'll even leave the FLOOR (goes upstairs), if not the HOUSE...
He doesn't even allow my ex to push him into conflict, and he is very sensitive (which I love, except sometimes he's TOO sensitive, he takes things I say the wrong way, and I hurt his feelings on accident. It makes me feel terrible that he thinks I would WANT to hurt his feelings...But, I wanted a sweet, peaceful guy, I just have to try to be more 'gentle' with him ;))
He only makes about 35% of what my ex made, but he makes sure that all of the bills are paid, and everyone's taken care of, before we do anything else...And most of our 'wasted money' is what's spent on going out to eat with the kids, and horror movies:D
He also plays death metal (killer drums, guitar and bass!), and has long black hair:cool:...AND...He makes me feel shallow, because there are so many times that I look at him, and I can't keep from thinking (and then telling him), that he is so mother fucking sexy!!!...I swear, sometimes I think maybe I should smash in his face with a crowbar, or cut off his tongue and gouge out those deep, smoldering, blue eyes...Maybe cripple him or something...Just so I'll feel better about myself:D...Because it's what's on the INSIDE that counts...DAMMIT!!!!!
That whole 'chicks only go for the 'bad boy' things is bullshit.....It translates to 'Stupid chicks don't know any better, they go for looks, money, and/or a big dick, not understanding that when this is ALL they look for, it's all they usually GET, with an asshole attached'...The 'assholes' knowing that stupid bitches look for those things, figure they don't need anything else to attract a chick, so they can treat them like shit...And, they are usually right, it's pretty damned disgusting
And...Sometimes...The guy pretends to be a 'nice guy', just long enough to get the chick, only showing his true self when it's difficult for her to get away (ie: love, marriage, kids, etcetera) and the chick who THOUGHT she had a nice guy, ends up with an asshole, and the stereotype that 'chicks go for the 'bad boy'
Okay, I'm gonna stop now...That should be enough information to make the point I was trying to make...I'm pretty sure ya got it :)
Yes, the game is complicated...I got tired of playing it...