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Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
I'm probably going to lose the few friends I have, but I could care less anymore. Give her a rest already. She's new to the Mommy arena. And now has to accept the Mommy arena and the Dad being an alcoholic DICKHEAD, ASSHOLE, PRICK, SON OF A BITCH part of the commitment. I have news for all of you. Not everyone posts here with problems for attention. There are a few of us that know each other......THAT NONE OF YOU KNOW!!!! And not for reasons you may want to bring to surface. So stifle.; JESUS FUCKING CHRIST!!!!!! I'm a pig, I'LL ADMIT IT!!!! Proud to admit it! But I do it where its requested. But at least I can say it, admit it and move on. I wonder who needs the growing up more. Pouncing on the insecure and vulnerable seems so easy around here.
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Not jumping down your case or anything, I know all of you are just going by what you've read...and the case may seem that her husband is an "alcoholic DICKHEAD, ASSHOLE, PRICK, SON OF A BITCH", but he really isn't. I'm very good friends with Trish and her husband. Fuck, I can't even say that in the past I haven't got shit faced drunk with him SEVERAL times, and that hasn't helped his situation at all. But I know her husband is a great person and loves Trish and his kids more than anything in this world. But he does have a problem, and it IS a disease, which he needs help with. I also know that if she leaves him for good, his life will never get any better. I've seen him sober more since they've been married than I ever have before...and that may not be saying a lot, but it IS saying a lot at the same time. He needs his loved ones to get better, and becoming sober after abusing like he has is no easy task. Yes, his actions lately have not been good, I can't say I'm too happy with his actions at this moment....but that does not make him any of those above mentioned things.
Trish, you and Adam are my best friends and I love you both very much...I'll always be there for either of you, anytime, no matter where I am, ok? And sorry I haven't been able to talk to you in the mornings, I'll try and wake up a lil early tomorrow so we can do that. I miss ya girly. Chin up.