[stubbornforgey]

Sigh'
why are you jumping on us for offering open and honest opinions?
Isn't that what we are here for.
Its just letting you know that we care about your situation...it may not be what you want to hear but its the truth.

Your man has to admit that he has a problem..
you can move house...attend as many AA meetings as you wish.. but nothing will eventuate until then.
Also ..stop making empty threats..
thats not a cure its a cause as well..
he knows that he has 2 things he can surely depend on..his booze and his woman..so he has nothing to lose.
Loving him is understandable..but not good enough at this point.
If he see's that he doesn't have that safe boundry..then maybe he will take steps to improve his situation.
We discipline our children when they step out of line..he wants to act like a child...then treat him like so.
Last point...a fatherless child is better than a child living in a house full of disrespute..
I sympathise with you both..and despite what i have posted..i wish the 3 of you well.