cool urge - i must have missed all that drama (my defense is i just never get that involved with anyone or anything - but it toally respect your position!)
BTW - this is a cool thread - thanks for all the suggestions so far (some i've read, others i haven't)
its interesting that they are all fiction - which makes sense, (my ONE fiction horror book would probably be Stoker's Dracula - long, rambling but i always get totally wrapped up in it).