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I respect everyone's viewpoints concerning this subject...I guess I just can't wrap my head around how it wouldn't bother somebody if their significant other slept with somebody else.
The thought of my boyfriend sleeping with another woman disgusts me. In my opinion, masterbation and having sex with a person are COMPLETELY different. A hand and a...YOU KNOW WHAT are two different things ;) :p
I'm the type of person that gets really skeeved out just thinking about what kind of dieseases are out there. I would never put my BF at risk by sleeping with somebody else, so if he did that to me...it'd be done.
In my opinion, if you sleep with somebody else...you're not completely satisfied with the person you're with. This is JUST my opinion. Please don't scream at me, b/c like I said...I respect everyone else's thoughts...I'm just giving MY thoughts on the matter.:)
I feel that if you're going to make a committment to get married, then you need to be completely committed....otherwise, DON'T GET MARRIED.
I don't understand being in a relationship with somebody, and then having it be okay to sleep with another person. Why even be in a relationship then? If you want to sleep with multiple people, or can't be faithful...then just stay single. I suppose if your partner is okay with it...that's a different story...but if you know they're not, don't cheat on them and then tell them that "sex is sex"...b/c it's not like that for everyone....I guess the boundaries need to be talked about before any heartache is caused.
In the end, I guess whatever works for people works. I know what I wouldn't put up with, so I have my own opinions with regard to this matter...but what other people do is none of my business...it doesn't affect me, so I'm definately not judging.
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