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Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
If a guy you really cared about and loved asked you to marry him and you said yes. Then you decided to go on for one last fling, could you honestly marry him with a clear mind and soul?
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Yes.
I actually do have a boyfriend and I do love him otherwise I wouldn't waste my time with him. If we were about to get married and this happened, I probably wouldn't just because I wouldn't want to.. but as far as being able to live with myself I would definately be able to. Sex with a bachlorette party stripper is on the same level as masturbation with me, you're not cheating because you're having sex with nobody. If I found out about my fiance having sex with a stripper before our wedding it wouldn't bother me that much. Now if we're talking about cheating because one person is too much of a wuss to call it off, then I'd be pissed off for wasting my time. I'd rather have my boyfriend cheat on me then think about cheating on me. You can keep a bird from flying by breaking it's wings, but the desire is always there. I don't want to be divorced at 50, then again the married people I know how shitty lives so I don't even know if I want to get married.
Anyway in my mind it's not wrong because I wouldn't feel guilty about it. I probably wouldn't do it, but I won't say I definately wouldn't. If you're having sex with someone with no intention of continuing anything with them, it's not really cheating by my definition. Cheating to me is letting your bf/gf/wife /husband hang there while you don't love them anymore and you're looking elsewhere for love. Two things piss me off more than anything in the world, being ignored and having my time wasted. Doing both at the same time is a very bad idea.
I am in the definate minority here, I know. I've been in many, many discussions with friends about this subject. It might just seem like a way to sleep at night for being such a ultra mega slut, but I'm not, really. If this weird situation of my friends coaxing me to have sex with this hot stripper at my bachlorette party I thought I'd be honest and say I might possibly do it. I shouldn't have answered your question though. I could definately smell the bait, my defenses were down though.