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Originally posted by stubbornforgey
how ppl in my own family are able to feed off my mothers vulnerability is getting me all worked up .
She is an old lady and will stop at nothing to please her grandchildren..
2 of her eldest have so far been able to get my mother to go guarentor for them..
they left her with the bill so..ended up paying it off herself at so much a week.
It took her ages to finish it off...
During the weekend the same 2 asked her to get them a loan..
she slipped it out in front of me and i gave her a huge lecture..
yesterday while i was at work..these assholes took my mum to the loan shop
n she happily took it out for them....
i left the house this morning very pissed off.
My poor mother who has no fucking ears!!!.
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That is terrible to do that to someone. My great-grandparents are the same way...they'd do ANYTHING for ANY of us and all we have to do is ask, even if it makes them go without, they'd do whatever it was. They aren't rich, none of us are, and we know this... that's why we would never take advantage of them like that. Asking for a little help from family every once in a while is great, you should be able to turn to your family when you're in need, but it sounds like these people need a kick in the face for what they're doing to your mom....is one of these grandkids the same one you posted about before?