Listen, I know where SFF is coming from. I've had some SERIOUSLY bad situations with men (nuff said). The reaction is almost a type of shock. It just takes a breakthrough. Yelling at her is not going to change anything. In fact, it's just going to make it worse.
Sometimes it just takes someone. My ex was great. He was wonderful. We're not together any more because he lived very far away. For awhile I was really angry at him, but then I realized how great he was. My point is, you can't be told that men aren't all evil. You have to see it.
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By the time you're twenty-five they will say you've gone and blown it. By the time you're thirty-five I must confide you will have blown them all
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