[bloodrayne]

@ Haunted: It's nice of you to try to get things back on track...I'm sorry that it all (Your 'Good-Bye' thread) came down like this...It shouldn't have happened...

I only have a few minutes...As I was reading to catch up, I ran across a post to me that I wanted to answer, yet the thread had been locked...As it seemed to cause animosity (which honestly confounds me), I understand why it was locked, however I did not get a chance to respond...So, without attempting to rehash any arguments, I simply wanted to respond to Spallalala's post:

Originally posted by Spallalala
Bloodrayne.
Your not a psychologist are you? Im pretty sure your not.

No...I am NOT a psychologist, and I would not choose to be...I disagree with MANY of their methods as well as their motives, and for the most part, they generally disgust me...I won't go into this in depth, but I have my reasons

Originally posted by Spallalala
If you think that what you have said about cheeba is true then you dont know him at all. So save the cereal box psychology for those in here that wish to hear it.
I didn't bother reading it all, just the parts about cheebs, coming from someone that actually knows him, you are incorrect.

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Sorrow and fear are considered 'weak' emotions...Anger and Rage are very strong emotions.........To allow ourselves to be controlled by 'weak emotions' causes us to feel VERY weak and helpless....We can allow ourselves to be controlled by stronger emotions, far more easily

Often we will express anger in a situation where we feel sorrow or fear, often exchanging the weaker emotions for the stronger one....We can simply accept it more easily, and we do it automatically, without even realizing that we're doing it

This IS true...

Originally posted by Spallalala
I have a feeling that Cheeba is a lot like this...

This is an opinion

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Some people can't allow themselves to feel 'weak' or admit that they hurt...Because weakness disgusts them...It may also cause them to lash out at someone else that they feel is weak, when they should be strong...

This IS true

Originally posted by cheebacheeba
BR - I bear you no ill will.
I understand why you may have come to the conclusions you did, however, in the points potentially (eg - I have a feeling) pertaining to me, you were incorrect.

As previously stated, my opinion about your reaction to the situation was simply...An opinion

I BASED that opinion on reactions such as these:

Originally posted by cheebacheeba
I want to make one thing clear, to smite any assumptions before they occur. My comments and views on the "suicide/hurting ones self" topic are in no way reprasentative of my individual "past" with haunted. I have told her, and I am telling you, if my BEST FRIEND told me about having done the same thing, the first thing they'd be greeted with would be a punch in the face, possibly multiple punches, and yes, I would turn my back on them until they solved their OWN problems.

However, you expressed it much better than I did :)


I appreciate our ability to have a discussion here, no matter what the topic may be about...However, I have no idea why discussions must degrade into disputes and personal attacks...I will never be able to comprehend that...


That being said...I, personally, did not feel that I was being 'attacked' by Spallalala, or anyone else...If that WAS an attack, all I can say is "Ya gotta hit one HELL of a lot harder than THAT" :p