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Okay, this is going to get worse before...the thread gets locked...so I'll do one more post in this particular discussion and leave it at that.
I haven't read her say that it was a suicide attempt, so I will assume it wasn't. Which means it was just cutting.
I don't have a problem with cutting (hell, I used to cut). Whatever someone wants to do with their OWN body, I don't care one way or the other. Same with drinking, smoking, piercings, tattoos, S&M, black tar heroin, coat hangers, anything like that. I don't know the reasoning, whatever it may or may not be, for what Haunted did, so I can't judge or say anything about it. All I know is that she cut. I assume that there's a reasoning behind it, but for all I know she could just be a masochist. I agree, however, that cutting doesn't actually help problems. But neither do things like having a drink after a bad day, but people do that anyways and nobody bats an eye.
And I don't think this was for attention either. She didn't go on about it, she didn't give a lengthly diatribe about the reason for what she did, just a simple "this is what happened, I'll see ya later" not really ASKING for support even. This would all have gotten out anyways no matter how it went down now. Either she just goes away for a while without saying anything:
*Haunted comes back*
Some poster: Hey, Haunted, where ya been?
Haunted: Personal stuff.
Some poster: Sam has a limited amount of space for posting, so lets just pretend I and others have asked about the "personal stuff" a lot.
Haunted: *first post in this thread*
Or she just says that she'll be gone for a while and leaves:
*Haunted comes back*
Some poster: Sam has a limited amount of space for posting, so lets just pretend I and others have asked about the "personal stuff" a lot.
Haunted: *first post in this thread*
I don't think discussion at any length taking any side is going to do any good, be it support or getting in her face, cause in the end she's gonna do what she's gonna do. So, I'm gonna try and stay away from the main argument that's going on.
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