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Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
That may have been a bad choice of words in this case. I certainly meant no offense by it. By it I meant that most people, man or woman, are too proud to let go in the love departmnet. How I know this is because my last relationship was an abusive one. She constantly got drunk and I constantly ended up bleeding or brused. I even have permanent nerve damage on the right side of my forehead from a full bottle of wine being thrown at me. I was too proud to admit that we were not the match made in heaven because I thought I could help her. I loved her, and I wasnt going to give up at all, until I was absolutely sure. Then she got a year in jail for violating a court order that ordered her to not have anymore violent physical contact with me. And I waited around for that year for her because we have a child together. When she got home, we went to therapy and she didint last a week before she was drunk and beating on me again. Now I could've hit her back and not been charged for defending myself, but I would've killed her with one punch. And I dont believe in hitting a woman. So maybe pride is not a factor in this case, but ya never can tell.
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I hope I didn't come off as being pissed at you or anything like that, I was just saying what I had to say about the subject, I didn't think you were trying to offend her or anything.