[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by pinkfloyd45769
I just dont know whats going on, if I am doing something I would like to know what it is.

It's called...Enabling...

He does this to you, because you let him...I'm sorry, but that's the truth...

I know it's probably difficult to get out of the relationship, especially when you have kids.....But, in the long run, you'll find out that it's much MORE difficult to STAY, especially...for the kids...


If you can't see yourself with this person for the rest of your life, that means that at SOME point, you are going to leave him....Why wait?...Don't waste your time and be miserable....If you can't find the courage to do it for yourself...Look at your kids, that's where you'll find the strength you need....Do it for them...


Life is what YOU make it...It isn't something that happens TO you....Take control...Make it better...

I've known WAY too many people in abusive relationships...But, I have never known ONE person that didn't have a MUCH better life (with a MUCH better partner...After going through the experience, learning what to avoid, knowing what the warning signs are BEFORE it gets 'too involved' to get out, and not settling for anything less than the best)...No matter what your fears are, that keep you from leaving...I can assure you that it won't turn out as badly as staying most likely will...


Don't wait 17 years.....


BTW...Where are you in Ohio?...We're 10 minutes from Cincinnati...