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Originally posted by MisterSadistro
How many men have you been convicted of stalking in the last 3 years, Jen ? LOL Seriously, I alwaysput all my faults up front so there are no "surprises" later on. I think if more people did that up front, they'd likely find the person they've been looking for rather than wasting time with all the BS.
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None, they can never prove a thing....do I seem stupid to you? :p Kidding, kidding. To be honest, I've barely dated in three years. I have too many men friends I think. Plus, I came thisclose to marrying the
wrong man. Scared me off of them for awhile...lol.
I see what you are saying, but I still think people hold back a little in the beginning and for good reason. I mean, I'm honest about myself and never pretend to be a different kind of person to please any man (trust that).
But for instance, I have a friend that cheated on a couple of exes of hers. Does she tell her next boyfriend up front, "oh yeah, I have a history of cheating, so you might want to prepare for that?" LOL No, she doesn't do that. And I have never had a guy tell me that upfront. You always find shit like that out the hard way.
There are experiences you have had and things about yourself you just don't share with someone right away. Or maybe I am just guarded and bitter...ha ha....
But it would be better if everyone just put the bad shit out there along with the good and said...this is me, take me or leave me. But
most people are just not like that. At least, in my experience.