[Marroe]

I have never cheated on anyone myself, if I feel like I'm straying from the person, I just cut it off. But I have left one relationship to persure another before. I HAVE been cheated on once, and I did stay with the guy for almost 2 years after that. Was I pissed? Of course...Was I hurt? Fuck yes I was...Did I hate him? NO...he was my boyfreind, not my husband.
People do the dating/courting thing for a reason...for most it's to find that ONE person. I have been in a few situations where I was with someone for a few years, thought they were that person, and it wasn't til after one of us strayed to someone else that we realized things weren't as great as we thought...and thank christ it happened that way, or I would have stayed in some pretty fucked up relationships. I can't say cheating is right in any way...as I've said, I break it off before it goes to that, but I can only REALLY expect monogamy from the person I marry...That's when it becomes a real issue, until then, I won't let anyone's foolin' around ruin my life. If they find someone they'd rather be with while they're with me, I know I'll find someone 100x better to me than they ever were.

Point is...if it's a boyfriend cheating on me, it sucks, but I can move on. If I ever do get married, that's a different story.