[filmmaker2]

Well, shall we say, a happy medium can be a good thing...we don't want to be completely slovenly and self-loathing, and we also don't want to be preening, egomaniacal, raving little biotch-goddesses.

Although seriously, if I had to choose one type over another, I would prefer to hang out with the sad self-loather...because I've had my share of the self-absorbed, narcissistic ego-driven prick dandies. Hey wow, I made up a wurd!