[barbra]

Originally posted by filmmaker2
That's why I suggested you call, but not be too enthusiastic--you know, do the "testing the waters mode" thing. Goodness knows how many opportunities in life go by because a person is hesitant to take action.

I'm not recommending crazed, uncontrollable, throw-caution-to-the-wind type action--just some kind of action, to get things rolling, so to speak. A small gesture. Keep the emotions in check as much as possible, shield yourself from being hurt, but do a little something.

The whole thing about it's the guy's job to initiate everything is false and kind of sexist, anyway. Sure, you can call.

its already in motion