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If you're trying, stop...
If you're not trying, start?
All you can really do is reverse your tactics.
I dunno really, chicks have always kinda just come by me...I got asked out by THEM more often than likewise.
I have to admit, my most successful efforts were when I wasn't particularly paying a great deal of interest in making it happen.
Steer clear of being too much of a "nice guy".
I mean, don't be an asshole, but for me, the whole " too sweet" routine only ever worked a negative effect for me.
If you get a date or whatever, fuck the stereotypical shit off.
Cruise some old record stores with a girl, go to the chinese friday night markets (this is, of course assuming you're from sydney too), take her to paintball skirmish with your friends....or.... you could just make her suggest something?
Talk, listen, don't get too caught up in what you THINK you should say, 'cos you'll just come across as an idiot if you do.
Ok, so that's what's worked for me...it doesn't come with a
male-species wide garauntee though. That's just MY "how".
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