I think you should ask your boyfriend what is going on. If he lies (and I think you will be able to tell) then I know how hard it will be but I think you should move on. There is obviously something going on and he is not talking to you about it. I'm not sure if he is cheating or not but whatever it is I'm pretty sure it is probaly not good. I had a boyfriend who started doing the same thing you are describing and I tried talking to him but he refused. Finally, I found out he was cheating and then he left me. I felt so betrayed and stupid. We were together for 7 years and I could not believe he did this to me. I am telling you this because I refused to see something was going on and I tried to hold on but that caused me more pain. You know there is something going on, just ask him and if he doesn't tell you, leave. You do not want to be a doormat for him to walk on. Refuse to let his behavior continue. I wish you luck in what ever you do and I hope that it turns out good.
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