[babygirl20]

Originally posted by knee jerk
Oh you poor kid...

Yeah....men.......we're a pretty sad lot.
We screw up all the time. But sometimes its for a reason. If he's cheating on you and you need to break it off and end up hating his guts forever then that's probably what would have eventually happened anyway.
You can't change that.
I'm only sorry that you've put in so much time. He'll probably hate himself for all of this and for wasting your time as well. Even when we screw things up beyond belief we usually aren't doing it just to be evil. You've been with him this long; you probably know him very well. If he's never been abusive in any way then this is just his heart changing.
We can be very apologetic. Don't allow this to cloud your judgement. Ask directly, then get the fuck outta there! If he's cheating now (he probably is) then you guys just weren't meant to be. I can't tell you how sorry I am for you.

Now go. Ask. Now.

Thank you so much for your input. Well, for all ya'lls input really!