[Lycanthe]

There are, of course, exceptions, but...

The vast majority of women, no matter what they might say in a poll or a forum like this, really get turned on by a man who is cocky, arrogant, a little bit distant, presents an aura of danger, and who is confident to the point of thinking he's the hottest thing since sliced bread! If he can look at a super hot woman and either sneer or roll his eyes like he's bored, so much the better. That hot babe will pretty much make it her business to rock his darned world!
Oh sure, they SAY they want the nice guy, the sensitive type who is "not afraid of his feelings", the great communicator. But I tell you what, you let a girl be out with a guy like that, and let a dangerous-looking guy start staring at her, and her "nice guy" will get laid that night...simply because she's fantasizing about the other guy.

You can be a nice guy if you want to, but you'll have far fewer dates than the guy who typically treats a woman like a cross between a trophy and a sex object, and who makes sure she knows he could just as easily take her as leave her.

The trash talker, the game player, the arrogant chauvanist, the very thing it's "popular" for women to say they don't like, is the guy who will take your girlfriend from you and get her to do things to/for him that she wouldn't think of doing to/for you (and yes, I mean in and out of bed). I could tell some stories...but nah, it wouldn't be all that appropriate.

I know what I'm talking about because I have been on both sides. I was the nice guy once, genuinely, no faking. But I found my "success", if you want to call it that, increased dramatically once I stopped being so nice. I've kind of settled in the middle lately, but I'm telling you, you do have to be nice, and sensitive, and all those feminine things, but you also have to have a darker side (and I don't mean a HARMFUL side), if you want your lady to be TOTALLY into you.

As I said, I realize there are exceptions to this, but most of the women who have posted to this thread have been either lying or at least shading the truth! ;)