i think one of the issues, is that with some people they will make up their mind and will not change it for any reason
its almost like theyw ill set themselves up and allow no room for movemet
ex. my friend on a whim got married to her bf (navy was going to be shped to japan, needed to be married to go with him). ok they got an aprtment together but guess what, no car. so she would take a taxi to school. finally got a car and what does he do? "this car idsnt safe so i dont want u driving it" so he'd tkae both sets of keys with him tow ork
so the VERY NEXT DAY withou even tlaking to anyone hardly, she just calls the schools and cancels all of her classes. wouldnt even give hreself any way to move
same with suicide, peope will get it stuck in their heads fo deeply that theres NOTHING left for them, u cant even chang their mind that perhaps hey, ur not the only one, and there are peopel going through werse shit than u
stuborn.. hardhednessess...
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