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Originally posted by rikki
Oh and for those of you being dumped for being "too nice," it's actually more likely that that's just what someone told you. More times than not, the "too nice" comment is about people who have a lack of self confidence. There's nice and then there's pushover. I've dumped guys for the same reason. I don't want someone I can walk all over, there's got to be some driving force.
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i dont think thats why he dumped me, i think he just used that as an excuse (im far from nice). i believe its because im a difficult person to understand. i find humor in nonhumorous situitations, i'm one of the school bullies, i treat people like shit.............but for my 4 close friends and my two siblings im really nice. i stay up with my friends when their sick, i take my siblings to disneyland every year (a place i hate)............i make fun of people and make their lives at school miserable, i embarrass them infront of out peers but when they usually start to cry or become withdrawn i feel sorry for them....but im still a bitch to them. he broke up with meafter i helped jason (a guy i hate, and he likewise, feels the same for me) with his homework, when earlier that dayi made him look like a jackass in the cafeteria infront of his friends. im nice to people untill they piss me off, then after ive embarrassed them, kicked their ass, w/e.....im nice to them. not ill kiss your ass nice, but ya you can copy my math homework nice
and as far as self confidence goes............ive been told i have to much