[HappyCamper]

I agree with abbycomix, relationships are all about trust and communication..if you don't communicate with your partner, about things that are bothering you that they do or don't do, you're not going to know that there is anything wrong. Also you have to believe that it may just be them, and not you. You can't always be blaming yourself, because you get dumped..yeah at first you may do that (hell i do it!)..but after awhile you'll realise that you're better off without someone who drags you down. By dragging down, i mean someone who doesn't treat you with respect and someone who isn't a true friend. I use to get the "well you're nice and all" or the "i just want to be friends" line, and I've come to the same conclusion that Billy Crystal came to in "When Harry, Met Sally", that men and women cannot be friends because the sex always gets in the way and it's true! One of three things will happen: 1)the guy likes the girl more than the girl likes him. 2)the girl like the guy more than the guy like her and 3.)they fall in love with each other...unfortunately in my experience 3 is very unlikely to happen. and well if you don't agree with me, girls ask you're guy friends if they want to sleep with you, and I bet most of them will say yes. Trust me they have thought about it.