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i would not be attracted to a guy who made up 'guy' excuses to blow me off just to seem confident and not 'too nice'.
Maybe Arioch wasn't 'too nice', maybe these girls were 'too messed up' to appreciate somebody who treated them well. Plus at different times in people's lives they have different needs when it comes to being serious or not. Not everyone is capable of intimacy. There are plenty of people out there like that.
Acting macho and aloof may be good advice if you want someone who likes macho types and being emotionally manipulated. But blowing someone off to seem busy and in demand is a bad head game. I think it's best to be yourself and yes do treat women like princesses and they should treat men like princes. If you aren't being treated well, don't put up with it there are more fish in the sea. Relationships are a give and take and that old quote 'Do unto others' really goes a long way.
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