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Oh and for those of you being dumped for being "too nice," it's actually more likely that that's just what someone told you. More times than not, the "too nice" comment is about people who have a lack of self confidence. There's nice and then there's pushover. I've dumped guys for the same reason. I don't want someone I can walk all over, there's got to be some driving force.
I don't personally know any of you, so I'm not saying that this is the same case for you. This is just what I know from personal experience. It's not so much the conflict as it is the possibility of conflict. If you don't have any confidence, you're not likely to stand up for what you want. "I dunno, whadda you wanna do" is THE biggest sign of this. If you can't come up with something to do half the time, there's no fun in it.
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