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FK, Seems you haven't noticed that I hadn't actually mentioned ANYTHING about EITHER of your sides of the argument you had, as I wasn't involved, I wasn't there, and I have no interest in searching through the forum only to most likely find that what I'm already thinking is indeed correct.
I've not mentioned anything other than your behaviour within THIS thread...THAT is why I've not commented on what's gone on outside of it, or MD's actions "last night",other than to theorise as to that which I maintain was probably what initially started your issues with MD.
Since you clearly want me to go into that, I will.
I myself disagree with ANY form of child abuse...and I'd be the first to tell MD he'd stepped outta line IF I considered the things he'd said to be of a serious nature, and to be taken as little more than a joke, which I doubt they were.
Again, I say this as I HAVE been here for a while and have had experience with this individual. And no, your being relatively new does NOT invalidate any views and opinions you have as you seemed to think I was implying before. It's just that I considered this whole incident to be very unlike him, (hence my interest in the subject) because if ANYONE is down on child abuse, it's him...
Now, if you were offended...you're were within your rights to be.
However, if you over-react and spit the dummy, of COURSE he's going to string it along just to piss you off, or to get a rise out of you, it's a common practice..."real" life or otherwise. As I've said before, often a misinterpretation can lead to an argument that wasn't going to be there in the first place.
The fact remains that if you'd BOTH approached the topic in a more mature manner, this would not have turned into the shit slinging contest that I've witnessed in various threads since my return. Next time, if there is one...either stay calm and discuss it, and if the other party fails to do so in kind, take it to the moderation, who will erase any comments that they also find to be of a serious, offensive or overly derogatory nature...unfortunately, that's all they can really do as it IS only an internet forum after all.
An ongoing argument is pointless, and spoils the many threads that it ALWAYS ends up spilling into (like this one).
The only point I was trying to make before you bluntly denied any (even partial) guilt in this matter as though I was just talking SHIT...is that this has happened many times, and it annoys me to have to see it. Had you just accepted what I'd said for what it WAS, there may not have been a reason for all this anyway.
I got pised off, that I admit.
But as I've said, I don't suffer any bullshit. If I honestly think a person is wrong, I'll try to bring it to them to resolve the issue...but they have to meet me half way, and you didn't.
Anyway, this IS all I have to say on the matter, so consider this DONE. I have no problem with you provided you can end this here. If not, and you feel you absolutely HAVE TO throw some more of that CRUSHING eclectic profanity my way, so be it...
As for you urgeok, you jumped in when you didn't have to and made matters worse, that's all I have to say to you.
- B.
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