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Originally posted by Malicious_Mirth
i agree with what you are saying fluff and if we were talkin on a personal bases i can assure you that i would not have worded it like that.....but we are on the computer and their is not much room for voice inflections and facial expresions.......i am not a "mean" person but i am brutally honest.....(one of my many flaws)......on the comp i tend to say what i think and forget that people dont take it like i am thinking it.....
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flaw? nahhh.. but i hafto be extra careful on the computer (more often than not.. IM NOT). when i talk i do a shitload of hand movements and faces...
if i were in a bad mood last night then i woulda been more blunt, hell maybe i woulda been just a bitch but it seemed like she really wanted someone to talk to. especialy since the convo went from 'doing the deed' to 'been through a lot in my life... other than my bf i have no one' etc etc.
i DO think though we need more honesty nowadays... we are pretty much tuaght that it IS 'bad' to be honest. why tell someone the truth and risk starting a fight or hurting their feelings, when you can just nod and smile?....