That is true (re: posting something, expecting possible criticism), and you certainly *are* entitled to your opinion, but Jesus Christ . . . .
Maybe it's just me, but it seems that 99% of your posts (if not more) on this site have been argumentative. Your tone alone suggests that you're itching for some kind of confrontation from the very first line ("darling?" that's not supposed to sound sarcastic, as if you're talking "down" to someone?) . . . .
Ever heard the saying, "If you can't say something nice, then maybe it's best to not say anything at all?"
That's all I'm saying.
J.N.
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