[Egekrusher]

Fluff, I understand what you mean. While looks aren't everything, you're lying to yourself if you say they don't matter. You have to be physically attracted to your mate or it's just NOT going to work, end of story. For the men and women who think otherwise, well, I feel sorry for you. I really do.

Physical attraction is one of the most primal instincts that we have left. To devote yourself to someone that you are not attracted to puts both you and that person in danger of heartbreak. When you do find someone that you are extremely attracted to, the chances are ASTRONOMICALLY higher that you will cheat with them compared to what the chances would be if you were attracted to your mate. Emotional and mental devotion is sometimes NOT enough. Every person alive knows this, whether they want to admit to it or not.