[cheebacheeba]

I'm sorry, but a sob story/problems doesn't allow a free pass on instigating issues among other members, making threats of violence, forever dredging up the past because you're sore about it, and being generally here to primarily annoy rather than
actually contribute in a way that would keep you off the radar of those you're trying to pass the blame to.

End whatever issues you have, and let the message sink in the third time.

Don't think I don't remember that this all started when you talked negative shit in a thread I made to share info and pictures of my child with the members I'd known for a long time and even welcomed/encouraged newer members to join in...you wanted to try and turn that into a shit-show, then came back to "you may not remember me, but I remember you" me.
Don't push buttons. Any.
You fuck about again, and I will ban you permanently - and yeah I will be watching you, because at this stage you shit me more often than not, and I've yet to see you make any kind of effort to do anything but bitch and moan and cause problems for others.

Don't act like you're hard done by here...I'm as easygoing as it gets...I don't hand out infractions or ban people lightly, in fact you've got more than everyone else combined...Don't come in here acting like people are too stupid to realise this.

This just happens. If you act like a fuckwit anywhere in life, you have less rope and there will be people that are less tolerant of you, especially when they see things like this attempted instigation here, or you following the same footsteps and actions as you have before.

Just contribute. Talk to others. Don't poke prod or push buttons. Don't irritate people. Act like you're not a 13 year old getting a kick out of the reaction when you act in a way you know you shouldn't.

I can't fire it unless you load it first.
Remember this.
You piss me off but I'm still here trying to talk you out of the kind of actions that will have you kicked out.
I'm through taking time with this. It's a public forum.
Conduct yourself in a way that doesn't embarrass us as a whole. Like I've said before...it's actually a good site with awesome people...you can't see it because you don't really interact with them as much as you could/should.

Your next step will be a permanent IP ban.
I don't need a life story or to hear you have problems...because my sympathy doesn't extend to me doing you favours and let you stay while the other members get pissed off by your buffoonery. Keep the peace.

Again, last warning.

Move on.