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My mom and i were talking today about this and i decided to get some opinions.What do guys think of dating someone who has children?I'm not wanting to date anytime soon,just wondering.If any of you have any advice or thoughts i would like to hear them.Also,any of you w omen ever been through this sorta thing? I would like advice from both sides.Thanks!:)

Someone answer my damn question!!!!kidding!
It sparked an argument between me and my mom,so i'm trying to get some other opinions.

I dated someone with kids.I don't really care if anyone has kids or not.It depends on the person.

i dated several girls who had kids. If you're single late in life then it's a pretty normal thing. (i got married the 1st time at 33, the second time at 40.

i like kids, and kids like me so it was never a problem.
in fact the 1st girl i dated with a kid - the kid was one of the most important thing in my life... after her mom and i boke up it was really hard on me - because i guess i realized for the 1st time in my life i really wanted to be a father.

i do know some guys who dont like it. usually they are selfish immature pricks who dont like to wait to tear off a piece when the kids are in the way .. but what would anyone want with garbage like that anyway.

4 kids will be a bit tougher .. you'll have to prepare for that - i'm sure even guy who like kids may find that to be a bit overwhealming - it'll take a special kind of guy.

me myself - i dont think it would bother me that much - but it is a large financial responsibility.

(we have 1 kid - thats all we wanted)

I said i thought it would be impossible and i would be alone for the rest of my life.My mom said pretty much what you said.Thanks!

i am confident that you will not be alone the rest of your life!

If you don't mind baggage and if your heart wants it, then go for it. Personally, for what I am looking for at this point, I would probably eliminate the option off my potentials. Thankfully at the moment there is no concern about this matter.

I've dated women with kids before and it doesn't bother me in the least bit.If I like the girl chances are I'll like her kids too.

Wouldn't be a factor for me to be honest.

Worked out pretty well for me:D