Why me?
 

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You should add the guy to your myspace and find out wtf is up. Sorry you have to go through this shit!!! PM me if you need to chat!!! :(

Re: Why me?
 

Why don´t you talk to her about it?

maybe its just a myspace hoax - people can write any shit they want on there.


on the other hand, if it is what you fear - trust me you are not the first (i had a 2 year relationship ruined when i found out she'd been with someone else during the last six months). it sucks and it hurts and its not fair and its not you. . .

i was so bummed out by it all i started not going to work and just staying in my room with the lights off (oh and drinking REALLY heavily) [we were actually talking 'marriage' so it was pretty heavy]

. . .eventually i broke out of it - friends helped, even some folks i didn't consider "friends" stepped up and pulled me out of my stupor and baseball (of all things) helped immensely (i will always be thankful for the yankees and mets and the way i could fall asleep watching the playoff games and somehow felt safer)

Anyway - icky self-disclosure aside - this too shall pass and you've got lots of friends - so don't let it hit you too hard

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Ive been there.
I gave a chick 2 years ..1 year was amazing..

then she went from a sporty..intellectual individual..

to a fucking wanna b gucci slut who played me and lied to me hundreds of times.

broke my heart..and it sucked.


but now im with my new gf for 3 years..

and id rather eat feces than be with anyone else.


so chin up my man.

It sucks BIG TIME..weve been there
and no matter what people tell u..u dont care..cause your like..they dont know....

and your right..we dont know in your case.but we know in ours...and basically things will click and youl b back up..wondering why u ever cared...

so yeah..no matter what people tell u..it wont change anthing..BUT..ur mind will change in time..

U ever wanna chat to someone who's been there? Im here for u bro.

PS- got his link..lemme see thi DOUCHEBAG

LOL internet.

Sorry, I'm just messing around. It seems to me that what you need to do is get in touch with the girl first off. Don't dance around the issue, just come right out and ask her to explain it. If her explanation is reasonable and it's just a stupid internet hoax (which is quite possible) let it go. If she can't explain, kick her to the curb. I know it may sound harsh, but there's too many good women out there for you to waste your time with one who deceives you.

We've all been there. It sucks to find that the one you care so much for has lied to you and the relationship that you believed in was a sham, it truly does. But it isn't the end of the world, even though it may feel like it. Something better will come along.

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Well?


What´s she saying?

Tell us, tell us, tell uuuuuuuuus!!!!!

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