Why me?
 

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You should add the guy to your myspace and find out wtf is up. Sorry you have to go through this shit!!! PM me if you need to chat!!! :(

Re: Why me?
 

Why don´t you talk to her about it?

maybe its just a myspace hoax - people can write any shit they want on there.


on the other hand, if it is what you fear - trust me you are not the first (i had a 2 year relationship ruined when i found out she'd been with someone else during the last six months). it sucks and it hurts and its not fair and its not you. . .

i was so bummed out by it all i started not going to work and just staying in my room with the lights off (oh and drinking REALLY heavily) [we were actually talking 'marriage' so it was pretty heavy]

. . .eventually i broke out of it - friends helped, even some folks i didn't consider "friends" stepped up and pulled me out of my stupor and baseball (of all things) helped immensely (i will always be thankful for the yankees and mets and the way i could fall asleep watching the playoff games and somehow felt safer)

Anyway - icky self-disclosure aside - this too shall pass and you've got lots of friends - so don't let it hit you too hard

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Ive been there.
I gave a chick 2 years ..1 year was amazing..

then she went from a sporty..intellectual individual..

to a fucking wanna b gucci slut who played me and lied to me hundreds of times.

broke my heart..and it sucked.


but now im with my new gf for 3 years..

and id rather eat feces than be with anyone else.


so chin up my man.

It sucks BIG TIME..weve been there
and no matter what people tell u..u dont care..cause your like..they dont know....

and your right..we dont know in your case.but we know in ours...and basically things will click and youl b back up..wondering why u ever cared...

so yeah..no matter what people tell u..it wont change anthing..BUT..ur mind will change in time..

U ever wanna chat to someone who's been there? Im here for u bro.

PS- got his link..lemme see thi DOUCHEBAG

LOL internet.

Sorry, I'm just messing around. It seems to me that what you need to do is get in touch with the girl first off. Don't dance around the issue, just come right out and ask her to explain it. If her explanation is reasonable and it's just a stupid internet hoax (which is quite possible) let it go. If she can't explain, kick her to the curb. I know it may sound harsh, but there's too many good women out there for you to waste your time with one who deceives you.

We've all been there. It sucks to find that the one you care so much for has lied to you and the relationship that you believed in was a sham, it truly does. But it isn't the end of the world, even though it may feel like it. Something better will come along.

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Well?


What´s she saying?

Tell us, tell us, tell uuuuuuuuus!!!!!

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But you haven´t spoken to her today?

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....... Screw her...

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fuckit ..you are too precious to go through crap like this..
let her fucking go..don't try and ring her
anymore..
let the dumbass chase you..
she will soon realise what a good thing she has passed up on..
Lots n lots of hugs sweety..
theres enuff h.d.c girlies in here
who would give thier left arm to be your
mate...
hold your head high dude and send her to the recycle bin ..
hold alt/delete ..
BE GONE BIATCH!!!:D

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I agree with Stubborn. Kick her out of your life as fast as possible.

The quicker you do it, the less you get hurt, dude.

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She's definitely fucking with you. I hate when they pull the old "I'm so angry and confused! I'm gonna kill myself!". It's bullshit. Sorry to hear about your troubles, man!

Yes...life does suck.

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that really sucks, sorry to hear that.

i'm having issues too. the girl i like just broke up with her old bf and i was going to ask her out but before i did she told me about her new bf... so... i waited 6 months for nothing.

Dude, no! First of all, the chances of her actually going through it with are fairly slim. Most likely, it's just a way of trying to get attention. Even if it does happen... you can't blame yourself.

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Man, never say life sucks. PART of your life sucks, sure. But overall, I gaurntee that you can find tons of good in your life. Be it horror movies, music, friends, even us...I bet you can find more good than bad:)

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Hmm..... Sounds to me like you wont be having too much of a tough time finding a new gf.;)


Good for you, sir.


HAIL!

:cool:

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Still, you´ve been in 10 relationships in under a year.


You dog, you.:p

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Yes, THAT´s a bad thing.

But what i´m saying is, that you apparently don´t have much trouble finding new girlfriends. And THAT´s a good thing. ;)


It depends how you look at it, i guess.:)

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are you kidding ??
then obviously you need to change the type of females you chase after.
Honestly my freind..
my husband is one of the most shyest ppl
on earth...
thats what attracted me to him in the first place.
Even after 18 yrs of marriage and with him meeting new ppl ..etc..he finds it very hard
to converse becos he is afraid of saying
the wrong thing when all that really comes
out of his mouth is nothing less than
intelligence.
Don't be so hard on yourself..
your shyness is not a downfall..
your choice of female is ...
:D

now i remember why i didnt get a myspace.....

Why me?
 

Not a thing anyone can say at a time like this to make it better. One small piece of advice, do not give up! Took me twenty three years to find the right girl. Give yourself a brake.

all i can say for you Vamp is.....your around the same age as me, and you can agree were both pretty young and have alot to look forward too. Ive been with this amazing girl for a little over 4 months and if she pulled something like what your gf did to you, I would probobly be feeling the same exact thing you are...

Extreme Deppression, because you think you arnt good enough to make her happy and to please her.

But thats not true. At All.

In my opinion if this girl is doing this crap to you, you need to confront her about it ASAP. and be bruttaly honest w/ her. Tell her you know whats going on. And tell her you think its stupid she kept her feelings for someone else behind your back. Tell her you dont want to be with her anymore because shes lost your trust.

This will be probobly one of the hardest things youve ever done. But after a tuff week you will feel better because you dont ever have to worry about it.

Also, I really dont think youll have a problem finding another girl. From what ive noticed you are extremely good hearted and care alot about her feelings. If you find a girl that gets to know you well enough to recognise how amazing of a guy you are. Youll never get her away from you.

I hope I Helped.

You Know Im always here for you man.

Your Friend,
Sam

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oh man that stinks
 

wow sorry to hear that. but maybe it is just some guy who is like "stalking" her. like she gave her url out to him thinking he was ok and sometimes my friends do it to me, but i know we are just friends, but try and see if she sent him something back, but remember to look if it is just horse play or something serious well i would like to think i helped and u know im here for u even thought u dont really know me, but im an angel. :D


stay strong!