Moral Dilemma...
 

Okay...Once again...I need you guys to help out with a problem...



ALL of the guys that have been asking me out have been pretty young...For some reason they think that I'm younger than I am...BUT, when I tell them how old I actually AM...They don't CARE...Anyway...Wicked Lady is having a royal fit...I'm not sure what to do...Older guys DON'T ask me out, and they don't like the same things I do, anyway (at least the ones I've talked to)...*sigh*...Am I just supposed to sit in the house and not go out with ANYONE?...

This is the latest one to piss off Wicked Lady...His name is Luis...He's really sweet...He likes a LOT of the same things I do...He is funny, witty, and HONEST...He is also a Cancer...It isn't like I plan to MARRY him:rolleyes: ...He's just a lot of fun to 'hang out' with...

Opinions?...I KNOW you all have them:p

What happened to Sergio. Ya know...you can't be bringing these guys in here and as soon as we get to know them ......BAM...their gone.

does HE think he's a vampire too ?

Tell the guys you like to "hang out" with that you value their friendship and don't want to mess it up. They should get the point.

You're not old, Rayne. Why don't you follow your instincts. If they get the point that you're only interested in having a good time (movies, dancing, bleep, whatever) go for it. Have a blast.

It's not a crisis of conscious and morality; its a question as to whether or not they can play by your rules.;)

OK....I get the dancing,movies thing.....but what is bleep?:cool:

I was trying to maintain some sort of standard.

I thought Monster Dad already blew any semblance of decorum out of the water.

'Blew' being the operative word ...

Well I guess it depends on what you consider pretty young. My wife is 10 years younger then I am, and we get along great. I'll be 42 in a couple of weeks, but I would not give second thought to dating someone, (if I were single) who was as young as 25-27.

As long as your happy, and keeping it legal, to heck with everybody else. It could also make holidays fun with the families.

Keep him around just because he pisses Wl off :D

You already know my situation, for those that dont, my wife is 10 years younger than I am, and she can barely keep up with me :D

Age is all a state of mind, plus someone younger than you will probably be better for you than someone your age who isnt into all the things that you are.

I have dated older women, like 20 years older than me, didnt bother me, we had a good time and thats what is important IMO

If they make you happy who cares what anyone else thinks, although making Wickedlady unhappy isnt a good idea, but it is your life and you have to live it.

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Somehow I think if you were a guy you would not even be questioning this................you go girl! :D :p

if they're of age (or not, whatever floats your proverbial boat) and you don't feel weird about it, go for it

I forget....WHICH one of you is the PARENT?:rolleyes:

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Shhhhhhhhhhiiiiiiiiitttttttt......I say go girl!!!!!! It's not your fault you're a knock-out hottie that can attract the young'ins. I say take that young whippersnapper by the ears and show him things the younger girls just don't know yet!!!!!!!! ;) :p :D A little age and experiencee comes in handy sometimes!!!!

* trying to find something positive about being a old relic of the 1950's *

i say go for it!!! how much younger is he?

As long as he's legal, let your heart be your guide.

sure Wicked Lady isnt hmmmm perhaps jealous that mom is gettin some? Like that she isnt the center of attention of hidden lust for all the boys?

contrary to some peoples beliefs this situation affects men as well. There's the hassle of showing up late for work one day and the classic "Whats wrong? had to make sure your gf got on the bus?" screw them and theirs....

just go with the mindset of rape, pillage and plunder and forget what everyone else thinks.

LOL..You guys are awesome...I knew you could help...Okay, I'm gonna answer some questions now...

Sergio is still around...He is an amazing, wonderful person, BUT just a friend...I'm finding out that I can have fun with lots of different people...Maybe someday one of them will end up becoming more than just a friend, but for now we are just having fun...Sergio and I will remain ONLY friends, as we are not really compatible for anything long-term...And he looked REALLY good at the club last night...I love to watch him dance...lol
LMAO...DEFINITELY NOT...He's not really into ANY of that...AT ALL...He's actually, kinda...'normal'...lol...At least by OUR standards...OMG, but he watches wrestling
:rolleyes: :D
I think this way, too...Thank you for your wisdom and insight, Creeper...You know that I love ya:)
Thanks, Sam...They are ALWAYS 'of age'...lol...At LEAST...heh
While I AM 'the parent'...I HIGHLY respect the thoughts, feelings, and opinions of my children, and I always have to take that into consideration...Their happiness means more to me, than my own...I just want to try to make them happy and comfortable with any decisions that I may make that would make ME happy as well..That's just the way we do things here...
Could you GET any sweeter?...If there were guys around here like YOU, I WOULD go out with someone older...You and I have more in common than the guys around HERE (that are MY age anyway) ;)
Luis is 19!:eek: :eek: :eek:...THAT'S why I'm having this 'dilemma'...At LEAST all of the others have been in their 20s...*sigh*...Everyone thinks he's at least 25, Wicked Lady assumed so, too...Until I told her otherwise...Then she freaked...
LOL...Wicked Lady already has hers....FOR LIFE....And she is beautiful beyond compare...ABSOLUTELY no cause for jealousy, whatsoever :cool:
LOL...THIS is exactly what I would expect to 'hear' from YOU ;)

@Haunted, MichaelMyers, Movieman64, Nine9, and Chaplain (Sis)...Thanks so much for your input, encouragement and understanding...You guys rock HARD:cool:

Then buy WL a pony and call it even

LOL..She would slap you for even SUGGESTING that...Of course...There ARE a couple more Bleeding Edge dolls, Kindergoths, Crypt Kiddies and some Cds that she wants ;) ...Hmmm...lol

ok, so sheri doesnt like the youngins wanting to date you??? understandable, just explain that you want to have fun, tell her if any of the guys you "casually" date or hang-out with make her feel uncomfortable, then to pull you aside and privatly talk to you. she'll understand, the whole dating thing takes a while to get used to. not to mention you arent old, ok when you're 50 then you're old, but til then......get em!!! in a way you're like robbin hood, rob from the young and keep em for yourself! loil

but that guy....... :)......whew- hi! my name is infatuated and single. loil

my mom did/does the same thing, except she hits on the guys and then gets pissed at me because the are trying to hit on me and she's "throwing their groove off" lol.

not to mention you're a cool mom, and dont dress like britany spears. :mad: i square to bob, sometimed my mom's clothes are just oh no! no no no no no, but when i pick out her clothes its not too bad. she just tries to be cool and 'hang with my friends.

Oooooh, Wicked Lady likes it rough, does she?

I say go with yer heart!!!! But just be carefull. you cant let wicked run your love life OR friendships, depending on what way you wanna go with it!

I SAY RAPE THE HORSES AND RIDE OFF ON THE WOMEN!!!!

at least they're of age, I'm stuck being a dirty pedophile (at least since July)

I understand about the age thing BR. I haven't gone out with anyone my age or older for a really long time. My husband was 5 years younger too. I just think you have to go by compatability. It comes down who you really connect with....no matter what their age. :)

that's what I told her parents. And by "told", I mean that I avoid them because they scare me

Thanks, Patricia...It's nice to 'see' you around again :)

Seri almost always likes the guys that I go out with AT FIRST...But, then she seems to find a reason not to..

She hated Jonathan when she found out that he was a 'Vampire':rolleyes:

Brad never had a chance because he WASN'T Sergio (and so, in her eyes, wasn't 'right' for me)

Luis...Just because of his age...

She is STILL crazy about Sergio..She is very disappointed with our 'friendship' status...I think that may have something to do with her eventual dislike for everyone else

Starring Characters in this ridiculous drama...Mostly for you, Patricia, since you haven't been here...

Sergio...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...yne/Sergio.jpg

Jonathan...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6.../Jonathan6.jpg

Brad...I wish that I had a better picture of him, this doesn't do him justice AT ALL...The lighting in this house SUCKS...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...yne/Braded.jpg

Skott...He's probably the best for a lot of reasons, BUT...We have Scorpio/Virgo conflicts...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...ayne/Skott.jpg

Sean...I already let this one go...He was WAAYYY too busy all the time...AND a Virgo
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...Rayne/Sean.jpg

Marcos is still around, too...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6.../Markiko50.jpg



And Luis...But...You've already seen him...


Why do they all have to be so young?...*sigh*

huh...all your Benjamins are foreigners

ok he's 19, how old are you?

LMAO...Only Marcos is a 'foreigner'...Well...Luis is half Mexican, but...So are my kids...


@Ginger...I really HATE that question...But, you must be the only one here that DOESN'T know how old I am...











I just turned 36, 2 weeks ago...

In your prime and beautiful...........:D

Well, there was Marcos, Luis, Sergio, and the rest looked like they were from Germany or Norway or something

ok ok why cant guys look like that in st pete FL??????? all we have are those fluffy little american eagle boys. *bleh* now if i were you i'd befriend em all and keep it like that for a while til i find out who i like best.
geeze, you date some hott mombajumbas!!!!

Because there's SUN in St. Pete

LOL...Thanks Nine9, you really are so very kind ;) :)


This is how it almost ALWAYS goes...

Guy: Hey, you wanna go out sometime?
Me: Oh, I'm way too old for you.
Guy: No you aren't, I'm (usually 20-30) years old
Me: *laughs*...Like I said, I'm too old for you.
Guy: Why, how old are you?
Me: How old do you THINK I am?
Guy: Not more than 25...(I SWEAR, they ALWAYS say 25...Even Luis did)
Me: Here we go again...lol...I'm 36
Guy: I don't believe that...You just don't want to go out with me
Me: When a girl lies about her age, she says she's YOUNGER than she really is...NOT older:rolleyes:
Guy: Oh well...Maybe I need an older woman




It varies a little in SOME places...But, not by much AT ALL....I just hate it when I have to get out my driver's license...lame:rolleyes:

Because there's SUN in St. Pete [/QUOTE]

yeah. dont remind me. it sux too because when i go into the auditorium and then step outside, i go blind. darkness needs to fall over the sunshine state. :D

Well no wonder people think you're younger than you are. People over 25 don't say "lol"

I'd reply further, but I'd get really crude with it, and I still remember what happened when Wicked Lady almost read me talking about cunilingus

:p :)