how do u heal a broken heart?
 

if you hate for so long is it posible to love again?

Sounds to Me like somebody needs a hug.
My door is always open.:)

Yes, it is possible. But it also depends on how long as you've said, hated, as to how long it will be before you can love or even like someone again. And uhhhhh...... I hate most everyone. So....yeah.

Well, first off, don't be concerned if the therapy isn't effective immediately; just keep at it. A broken heart does not just go away poof like that. They usually take MINIMUM 2 weeks, can sometimes take a great deal longer but you can try for 2 weeks if you really work at it.

You need to talk to friends about it, and only the good supportive friends. Don't talk about it with people who have an especially mean or cruel nature, they may say things that will depress you a lot more.

Watch a lot of movies, particularly funny ones, but mix in a violent one here and there, like Friday the 13th. Old movies that take you completely away to another time also can help.

Drink orange juice at least once a day when recovering from heartache.

Go out and see the world, hang out with people outdoors.

2 weeks!? It took me like 6 month's to get over a 2 month relationship:eek:

Funny movies, yes.
Mushy movies, no.
And violent movies may wind up putting you in a mood to be violent and hurt yourself or others.

I hate a person. I can't help it. It's a natural reaction to the bullshit they caused in my life. I tried to stop them, but they proceeded to go forth into pissing me off beyond repair.

Try not to hate. It really isn't healthy, and I am speaking from experience. When you hate, you automatically fill the requirements for being jaded. It's very hard to love and to trust someone if you're completely jaded.

"Try just a little bit harder," as Janice Joplin sang. Try to open the windows of your heart and let a little moonlight awaken you. You might be surprised at the hapiness that you find.

Also, note that I never believe in taking my own advice. That would make my life easier, and I can't deal with that.:p

Well, that 2 weeks was a suggested minimum...it CAN take a lot longer (oh, I've been there, too!), depending on so many factors...how hard you fell in the first place, and how hard you're trying to get over it, etc.

well, whatever you do, don't just write the whole situation off and deny any sort of closure, turning to chronic insomnia and sweet sweet painkillers because Vicodin is like mana from heaven.

...what was the question?

Oh and I forgot to mention: BEWARE YOUR OWN FEELINGS! KONG fell in love too and it fucked him up, but good! You should learn to have a healthy fear of your emotions. I'm sorry but this post doesn't make any sense, please disregard it.

My advice: find someone to talk to. Tell them everything, confide in them your heart and soul. I always feel better after talking to a certain friend of mine, and hopefully you can find someone like her.

Hate is pointless...only helps you crawl inside yourself and become a bitter person, gradually less and less receptive to what good there is in the world.
Just make sure you say what you gotta say to all parties involved, and move on. Whatever emotional "pain" you may be experiencing will become less significant with time, try not to let incidents in your past bias your opinions, or influence all your decisions towards your future, just let it guide you, and make you aware of others, yourself, and the knowledge that things don't always go as you'd hoped.
Learn to see potential, in both good and bad ways...become a more perceptive person. This may happen time and again, each time, a learning experience...whether or not you use it in a beneficial or detrimental way, is up to you.

I dunno if the place still exists, but instantvoodoo.com was excellent.

Edit: Yes it does still exist! http://instantvoodoo.com/default.asp?flash=true&
What to do there is pretty self explanatory. May be fun for ya & bring a smile to your face..... I know it is & does for me.

Bee Gees


I can think of younger days when living for my life
Was everything a man could want to do.
I could never see tomorrow, but I was never told about the sorrow.

And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend a this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again.

I can still feel the breeze that rustles through the trees
And misty memories of days gone by
We could never see tomorrow, noone said a word about the sorrow.

This holiday season, I also contributed to good cheer by writing the short story below. It is not a happy story, in fact it is rather grim, but there is much insightful philosophical content that may help those who are dealing with an emotional crisis like heartache. The story follows directly:


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"HOOTIE'S LITTLE RAT CHRISTMAS" by filmmaker2

Hootie is a lonely little rat on Christmas eve, so he goes into the kitchen and makes a gingerbread cake batter and then he calls Mr. Rat and Mrs. Frog and asks if they can come over and have supper with him but they say "NO" so he digs in the earth and invites a number of small bugs into his home to share the ginger cake but they get drunk and trash the place and take all his DVDs. That is my Christmas story, Thank You!!

filmmaker ROCKS.....can i get a HOOYAAHH

And I, also, feel the same way about Newb. He's okay!!!!!!!

Here's my advice, Nana.

Drink.

Talking is good, silence is bad. Time is the ultimate healer.

Now I feel like a schmuck.:p Personally, I do know that hating someone is a waste of my valuable time. So, how do you come to terms with a very powerful state of being, in this case hate, when it's such a part of your life?

~i look in the mirror
and scream in pain
i look at my mother
and scream in agony
now i look at you
and scream cuz ur all so happy~

I have hated my parents because of something that has happend to me and they were not there to help or save me.
Now i hate other people because i am bitter and my heart is broken and they only make it hurt worse.
I will hate people till my will is done or i die.

that is one reason why im misrable

You think that would help you?


Maybe you should try to get out and meet new people. If that´s hard for you to do, then here´s another idea. This might seem like a weird suggestion, but.....GET A JOB!!

Just a friendly tip.;) :)

yea...uh huh....Angra ur no help i think i'll take my own advice....
where the hell is a knife or a gun

No seriously, work/co-workers can be an excellent tool to help you get over stuff... and move on.

yea uh huh

if you have forgotten kasper I AM ONLY 14!!!!!!!!!

i can't get a job b/c my parents are fukin protective

Alrighty then!!!

well other than angra any one else wanna make me pissed?

Can't help you there...everyones got their own ways and means, so from my perspective, any more specific information based on these ideas would be useless. I only offer guidelines that I try to go by, how they're followed is as different from person to person as can be.

- B

well im tired*yawns*

Yeah, especially when they suck your balls, right buddy? RIGHT?!?
:D :D :D :D :D

:rolleyes:

no just pissing me off

i do

Yeah man, of course she reads 'em...she just doesn't UNDERSTAND them HAhaHAhaHAhahA

Take it easy, kid...

bitch
i understand them
cheeb you can b a real bitch do u know that?

Really???
I had no idea...

Time
 

Time heals all wounds as it flows but it does this by cutting & running raw & ragged the old.
Time moves away in the twilight of all days the moments of forgotten events into the dust. However all of your moments pass in a haze.
Death isn't the great equalizer time is. He haunts us each from moment to moment until the moment is gone & your love is forgotten.
All of them simply fades away with time... ;)

So put a quarter in yo' ass because you played yourself...because you played yourself...because you played yourself...

well that was pointless

Misfits...... Hrmf!!