'Secure In Your Masculinity'...Or Just 'Fruity'?
 

Yes, ItsAlive....You helped to foster this thought within me...lol



How many guys here would 'dress up' for their girls, and not feel 'uncomfortable' about it?


I know that ALL of us have some type of fantasies we would like to play out...Maybe a little 'role reversal' from time to time......Would you do it?...COULD you do it?

And if a little 'gender bending' isn't your thing...What is?


How about you girls?...What would you like for your guys to do for you?


I can get Dustin in a dress....Heh

.....But he broke one of my wrist restraints, and has complained that his ankle was 'tied too tight'..Some people are into it, and some aren't......

On a side note...Typically Libra males are the most likely to indulge these types of fantasies for their girls...And usually Cancer males will pretty much indulge ANY fantasy for their women, Cancer males like for their women to dominate them (in bed)

I'm glad I could help...:mad:

I would most likely never wear a dress in use for a sexual way. But I've done it for Halloween once or twice.

I have nothing against wearing women's clothing for a laugh. It's funny, you look stupid and it's a good laugh. But I don't think any girl I sleep with would say, "Wow, that new Body by Victoria bra is soooo hot on you, John."

lol...It's not really about whether it's "hot" or not...It's just for fun...A little something different from time to time......Would you believe that this is a guy I know? (and, he is 100% straight...VERY into women ONLY) :

He seems to be 100% hairless too...:D

Yes...That he definitely is...lol.....I don't care for body hair, on a guy OR on me.......Hmmmm....How many of you would shave for your girl?

I shave myself. I'm proud to be a "hairless".

I'm hairless, from the neck down anyway, my chick digs me that way lol...I'm like one of them cats...

See?...Now THAT's sexy......Hygeine is a real turn on...And a slick shaved man just screams "clean" too me.......Plus, I love to be able to experience a man's skin (the feel, the smell, the taste...the whole sensation...) without being hindered by all of that hair *cringes*

Well, the only problem is if you're hairless you gotta shave that nether-regions spot almost once a day... otherwise there's stubble, and the sex is very uncomfortable for the gal when you have stubble... Plus is takes forever, and it always makes me nervous. I always think I'm gonna nick something and not know how to fix it.

It's a matter of personal preference, just like anything else........But, the tongue slides easier over a hairless body...heh

Aww...You poor thing...I guess it takes practice...




But...That made me giggle...I couldn't help it...lol:)

Its all good... tonight seems to be the night I self-depricate and get picked on, so have at it.:(

I dont think Id ever shave myself, I shave the south pole but thats about it. I would never do my legs and chest.

I've got some chains, a riding crop, and a cat 'o nine tails hanging in my closet (the latter two were in the children's section of an off-highway, christian-family-owned seuvinier shop), on the off chance I ever get to use them


I'll pretty much do whatever

*walks in, reads thread and sneaks out the back door

Oh, I'll bet you know how to keep a girl happy...The intelligent guys are usually pretty creative ;)

well um....er....shucks :o

I'm just fruity....

No. I wouldn't wear a dress or cross dress. You can call me insecure if you want, but it's fruity.

On a related note, this metrosexual thing is getting outta hand. If I see another dude with waxed eyebrows I think I'm gonna puke!

i dont equate being 'secure in my masculenity' with wearing womens clothing ...

thats like saying i'm 'secure in my 'lawlesness' bus i'm still comfortable robbing the odd bank ..


its just something i'm not into ...

by the same token i wouldnt expect the girl i'm with to do something she's not comfortable with ..
the one thing that turns me on more than anything else - is when the other person is turned on .. so it becomes this thing that feeds off itself...

so if one person is doing something that makes them feel uncomfortable or foolish - thats gonna get in the way of the
overall feeling ..

I'm man enough to be sensitive to other people - i'm man enough not to have a single trace of homophobia (to the point where i constantly remind the people here that using the turm 'gay' as a negative adjective is potentially hurtful to other members)
I'm comfortable enough in my masculenity to refuse to perpetuate the gender roll bullshit most parents enforce on their kids. I work for a woman, and i think she's the greatest boss in the world. I believe in and encourage 100% equality.

and i also think that if a guy does have fun doing any of these things ..then good on him .. do what turns you on as long as it doesnt hurt anyone.


thats about it for me and my masculenity.....and i'm very comfortable with it ..


oh - and i have a tought time shaving my face - i'm not going to put any other part of me through that torture ..
I'm extremely 'clean concious' and havent gotten any complaints in a long and illustrious career in the bedroom :)

so what you saying?? it's over? .. thats it? what am I gona do with our role playing outfits?:mad:


btw wtf is a bedreem? :D

its the place where i go to dream :)

Put it this way - before I joined this forum, I was straight as a die.

Now, I wear dead women's skin AND clothing and prance around the house singing Barbara Streisand.

Damn weirdo forums!

:mad:

i'm partial to Liza myself ..

Hmm...I guess I'll be brave.

The only place I want to see a good amount of hair is on top of people's heads ;) However, bald can be very sexy too.

So on me or my guy it needs to be gone...especially coughdownsouthcoughsneeze....sorry, I have a bit of a cold ;) It just gets in the way of things:p

Also...I think I'd like it if a guy would wear eyeliner...that's pretty hot;)


*RUNS*

What if your girl wants to role reversal with you, but just not the cloths thing. Say for instence she whippes out a strap on and tells you to bed over, would you do it? and begges and pleads all night for you too.

I like for my guys to be hairless, but facial hair is ok with me. I've also had a guy dress up in my lingerie before and it was quite sexy:D

Some facial hair is fine with me too, it doesn't have to be completely clean shaven. However, I couldn't date a guy who had some really long curly mustache...creepy ;) Or a beard as long as zz top;)

I used to wear eyeliner. It was an 80s metal thing and I couldnt do it myself, I always had my girl do it.

I sometimes dye my hair usually black. And I paint my nails sometimes always black. Its my favorite shade.

THe closest I have come to wearing womens clothes was a kilt. But I suppose if I was asked I could be persuaded.:D

As for shaving, I am with Urgeok. I have a hard enough time shaving my face.

But as my sister said, this is what Libras do.

Very cool...I think eyeliner on a guy is very sexy for some reason :)

Personally, nothing about a man in women's clothing turns me on...but it doesn't bother me either...just not something I'd be into I guess. But to each their own :)

BTW...not trying to say that you're into it, your comment just made me think about it ;)

Yea it doesnt do anything for me either. If my woman asked well...


I think I might feel stupid. I was uncomfortable wearing a kilt, and there were a shitload of other guys around wearing them too.

Maybe it was the draft:eek:

BTW...I know you werent;)

I only wore eyeliner once in high school when our shitty band did a goth tribute show (which also sucked)... I thought it looked pretty dope, but my friends made fun of me afterwards, so...

Never again.

...I used the word "dope" in a sentence.

I'll admit I love to look at femanine guys. Eyeliner is always sexy. Of course I also read yaoi so who knows if I could actually date someone like that or I just like to watch. >.>;; The guy I date now has long hair and almost has a better figure than me, terrified of a little make up though...hmm...

Who cares what your friends say! Alot of laaaadies dig it ;) And that's all that matters:p

Well, I've dressed in full drag and ventured into public for Rocky Horror, so I guess the bedroom wouldn't be too far of a stretch. But, only with certain girls. (I am perpetually single) It would take a certain level of trust between a partner and myself to get that kinky.

I also shave the nether regions, and I am damn proud to do it. I am clean regardless, but I find it more aesthetically pleasing to women and to myself to keep it shaved. I do occasionally leave the little pornstar patch just for fun. But that has to be done very carefully or it just looks odd. The rest of me keeps its hair, though. I had my stomach area waxed for a calendar shoot last year and it was just too Christing painful to bear. I think I saw the face of God. Bravo, ladies. You must have a very high threshold for pain. Fuck that.

Anybody call me fruity and they is gonna get an ass whooping....i just ain't in the mood...this g-string has been chafing my balls and my fucking heels are killing me.:mad:

You're probably wearing it backwards.:D

I dunno...you tell me.


and YES...that is mehttp://www.dugg.com.au/database/images/product_981.jpg

I would say you have a very nice grey backdrop...

Other than that, I have nothing else to say. NOTHING.

See...i taped a note on me that says "HDC RULES"

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