How do you guys cope with stuff?
 

When something upsetting happens in your life, how do you deal with it? Be it something relativly minor, like getting dumped or something, or be it something major, like having loved ones die?

Just wondering.


Btw, I go into denial usually. Pretend it doesnt bother me. Hey, it works, I always stay friends with my ex's, so I guess it works...

I stop doing stuff.

I have had a loved one, who was very close to me die, and I was there when it happened.

For the next few years, I was on this earth, but was not living. Weekends would be spent at home alone when friends would be out having fun. I had no desire or energy to socialise with anyone. School became the least of my worries and then after that the same was true with work.

It was something like 5 years later that I realised that 'not living' was not helping anyone and started to make an effort with friends and going out etc.

When the minor things happen I do the same thing, just retreat from everything and everyone for a while - but for nowhere near as long. Just usually for a few days.

Marijuana.

Not a positive outlook.....but an effective one

I usually listen to music, play guitar, watch movies or play PS2......So really nothing changes for me.
My feelings are dead, I have no remorse......Its a terrible thing:)

deal with it for a bit, do somethign else. every so often gotta deal with it again (like, grieving) but its healthy that way. u oknw, instead of bottlin shit in or resorting to drugs/alcohol/murdering people

I shrug it off while bottling up all emotion deep inside

of course


i touch myself

I used to smoke TONS of weed and pop pain killers like candy.

but after 5 years of wasting my life doing that, I missed feeling emotions that make you feel alive.

But I still pop valium from time to time, "Makes you feel good" :D

*No comment*
Deal with it in the ways that you can, take your mind off of it and do something fun.

*Cue Music*

You're so vain, I bet you think this thread is about you...

heh heh heh, you know me all too well, and I do mean too well.
sorry, I like the word yacht lol, I don't type it often enough. Yacht yacht yacht yacht...

Funny, thats alot like listening to you talk....Yacht yacht yacht....yadda yadda yadda....same thing, wouldnt you say?

Well sorry if I'm not up to your standard, Prince Charming. You're not exactly 100% coherent either.

Im not coherant??

What the fuck do you call your idiotic "random noises"? What kind of shit is that? Woolooloo? Oh ya, thats really funny:rolleyes:

And what about your little Secret Window obsession? Ive always hated that movie, Im glad you're dumb as a brick so you couldnt tell that I was only pretending to enjoy it when you forced me to sit through it. Dont believe me? Ask Jay, he was there the 1st time I saw it. I hated it.

Happy now, Princess?

1) You make more random noises than me, I just make them at the best times, and for the record, I stopped about two weeks ago.
2) You had a choice whether you wanted to go or not, I didn't force you to do anything. Oh and don't bother trying to act as though you hated it. If you did, would there be so many insiders? I know when you're laughing at something funny and when you're laughing at something when you hate it.
3) Who the fuck do you think you're calling Princess? If I were you, I'd at least go for Bitch.

Good enough for your standards, Oh Mighty One?

Not quite, you hypocritical bitch. So, you can call me Prince Charming, but no way, get all defensive when I call you the same only feminine. Not like there was any point fixing it, you're manly enough.

Oh ya, I had a choice to go. But you didnt tell me we were watching that fucking sad excuse for a movie. I would have thought of some reason to stay home if I knew, but no, course not. Not like you could be nice to anyone else or anything, treat everyone like shit, than expect to have them lick your shoes clean? Sorry to break it to ya, but it doesnt work that way.

Awww, little baby Furball finds out she was wrong? Suck it up, darlin

next horror.com fight poster below

wow, you call that defensive? Hypocritical bitch seems a bit better, could use work though. Don't go about calling me manly, unless you want to be the woman in the relationship. Wouldn't take much. For your information, I told you like two days before the actual day that we were going to watch the movie, and you said you had been meaning to rent it *again*. Name one person I've manipulated, and if you say you, you've fucked yourself because you manipulated me into asking you to the cabaret and asking you out, unless you were just using me for your own personal gain? Maybe I was wrong, but the only reason I would be was picking you. Go to hell.

welcome back to horror.com deathmatch if you are just joining us furball has just struck back at the return

will the return make a comeback and kill furball or does furball already have this deathmatch wrapped up?


stay tuned for The STE vs Hate_Breeder as tonight's main event

Hey, I was your second choice for Cab anyway. I just did that to make you feel better about yourself, I pitied you. Come on, like anyone would ever ask YOU out? Ha!

With the Secret Window thing, I probably was only half listening to what you were saying anyway. Itz so reare that you ever say anything worthwhile, I usually just tune you out, with all that mindless blabbering. Believe me, if Id thought ahead, there would be absolutly no chance I would have gone to that party. Movie sucked, my arm fucking hurt, and you arent even a good kisser. What the hell are you good for? Nothing I can think of

Yes MM that will be a match to see.. all you members out there you better not miss this one cause its going to my a killer

Ooh, are you referencing me to trash? You being my second choice for Cab isn't good on your behalf, because I was planning on not going, and I've had more boyfriends than you. You tuning me out? I'm usually the one doing that, but.. oh wait I can't! You talk too damn loud! If I'm such a bad girl friend and low and all that shit, 1) why were you so excited about going out with me? and 2) how you you know, because it's not very often that you get someone to hang out with like that. How the fuck do you tell if I'm a good kisser by a peck, and your first one, at that. Greener. If I'm good for nothing, what are you good for? An annoying cling on, perhaps?

your my co-host

On the kissing subject, Ill only say two words : You missed.


What the fuck? That doesnt even make sence, no wonder you're worried about exams! Hell, Im surprised you can even read this post! Are you Sure you dont want me to type slower, I know you cant read very fast:rolleyes:

Oh, another thing on the kissing subject: My god dams STAGE KISS in Our Town was better than with you. But I guess that could have been my fault, I was trying to get away from that mangled mess you call a face as quick as I could.

furball has ripped off the return's left arm but now the return has taken both of furball's legs and is beating her with them!

Oh, but you're the one who calls me beautiful and all that sappy shit I've never wanted to hear. I'm not worried about exams, though you should, because I have a higher average than you in *every* subject. The stage kiss was forced, and you were too green to do it even in the rehearsals. You missed? What the fuck is that? Oh and how 'bout that handshake? You're too shy to kiss me at a public place, so you try to shake my hand? Who'd want to touch that, no one knows where it's been. You type slow enough as it is, I'd rather not be here all night.
*how do you know: how would you know if I'm a bad girl friend, you've hardly had any, let alone enough, or the quality to compare.

furball has somehow worked her own legs when they were not attached to her body and kicked vamp VAMP IS DOWN AND STILL BEING STOMPED ON BY FURBALL'S LEGS

Hate_Breeder is missing and so are our chainsaws

STE is still waiting to fight on the sidelines of this fight

When have I called you beautiful? God, it must have been over MSN, I dont think I could keep a straight face trying to say that in person.

Not worried about exams? You never stop bitching about them! "Oh, I just studied for 5 hours straight, I still think Im gonna fail". Ya, you arent worried at all:rolleyes:

Stage Kiss : We rehersed that a quite a few rehersals, but not like you'd know that. You never showed up, 3 rehersals at the most, and those were at the start of the year!

Handshake : No shit Im not going to kiss you in public. You think I WANT people to know Id been that close to such a beast? Ya right. Plus my parents were there, you idiot. I wouldnt kiss anyone infront of my fucking parents!

And have you ever heared the saying Quality over Quantity? You were the shortest relationship Ive ever been in, and before me you'd lasted what? I think you said 2 weeks or something? If youve had so many boyfriends, and your longest relationship lasted 2 weeks, you're some kind of slut.

LOL!!!

And btw Massacreman, what the hell do you think you're doing? If I knew where you lived, Id hunt you down.

I just lock it all out and become more introverted.....works for me :cool:

the return has just grabbed one of furball's legs and chopped off furball's head

the main event is cancelled

i'm Massacre Man GOOD FIGHT. GOOD NIGHT

what did i do? you won

Dude, I think he is trying to lighten the thread...

I don't think it is working though!!

dude,i am trying to lighten the thread


i don't think it is working though!!

You are the biggest fucker I've ever met in my life.
Beautiful: Hmm... why wouldn't you not let me smile? Was it because my face was too ugly without a smile? In that case, why would you go out with such an ugly person?
Exams: It's called stress. I have a lot of it, but you wouldn't know what that is. I worry about my marks, and my parents would flip if I didn't pass my exams. I'd rather not scrape by with a low C.
Stage Kiss: What? I went to every rehearsal but one that I was supposed to go to. You two only kissed like twice before the actual performance, and it looked so fake I had to stop myself from laughing at your discomfort.
Handshake: I dunno, you tell me. I'd rather punch you in the face then kiss you in public now, but then I wasn't really looking forward to it either.. plus you really don't know what to do. Your parents were not there! They left to go to the car for a very specific purpose, but no, you have to go ahead and give me a handshake!
Quality: What sort of quality do you see in three months of living away from eachother and talking to your girlfriend maybe twice a week? Since I was the -first girl friend- you hugged, that's really not saying much for your previous relationships!

who said I was finished?

but you're dead ZOMBA!!!! ZOMBA!!!! ZOMBAY!!!!

Ok, anyway, I think this was about time to give this up.

We were chatting over MSN, and I suggested that we have a huge arugument on here, staged and everything. But now, I think it may have gone overboard [Somethings that Ive said, aswell as some from Furball], so this is a good time to REVEAL THE HOAX:p :p

Hope you all enjoyed the show;)