Here's some advice I WISH someone had given me 15 years back and would have saved me a hella lot'o time....
Don't say a word... don't bitch at him, don't ask even 1 question...just get ALL your ducks in a row and when you are able( aka :finiancally(sp?), emotionally and physically.)
Then you can leave the SOB and be alright-you know?
Be cool, be smart and take care of your precious heart.
We do not have to take any shit from men anymore, and there are some really good ones that ARE worth what we are WORTH.

Mhmm...Good thing you backed your statement up with that.

nobody should have to take shit from anybody anymore - but most of us do from time to time.

especially if you happen to work for a living ..

I have to admit that all the men i have ever dated
were real gentlemanly like and lots of fun to be around..
some have been totally gorgeous...some not so, but they were
really again...awesome to be around..
As for the personal contact side..only allowed a small number
to ever get that close....
but if truth be known..if i had of known my mr right then..
he would've been my 1st and my last from then through to today.. :o

Ha ha ha.:rolleyes:
And oh yes there IS.:p

I wouldn't date anyone younger than me.

I'd say you were asking for trouble.:p

OW GOD MY EYES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's a gal for him.

http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i2.../fat-woman.jpg

She's got enough creases to satisfy a football team