well being that this question kinda sorta...involes me....yaa...but umm, yaa, i've read everything everyones said, and understand it all...well except the whole farting sceniaro, but i'm not gonna go there...(:rolleyes: )...she's basically thinking about me 4 this question in general bc c wants me to feel good....and honestly, i've told that she doesn't have to worry about that...although i'm sure it will bring us even closer than we already are, but like mentioned b4, theres the whole schmit to deal with having to do with the "after affects" if that occurs....so i really don't know....we've been careful all the time so i really don't know about that one...i think it'd be safer to wait a couple of years before we go that far, but i don't know

and on the topic of what happend to her....i didn't know her at the time it happend, but i've talked to her about it all the time...luckily she trusted me enough to tell me in the early stages of our friendship b4 we started dating...and i love her soo much that she was able to tell me...i've been helping her get through it and doing basically all that i can to help her b/c of course i don't know first hand how she feels about that....but i just make sure she knows that i'm always going to be there for her when she needs me...and now apparently she's trusted all of you(who read this thread) to know this.....so maybe it'll get other points in to help her work that out...i'm doing all that i can to make sure she knows how much i truly love her, because i do...and honstly, if i could i would already marry her(go ahead stomp on me with the "Your still young" BS)...but thats how i feel...i'm in love with her and want to spend the rest of my life with her...and ahead of time, from me and brit...thanx 4 all the opinions in here(except the farting....enough of that, go get taco bell and fart somewhere else)

This thread got, all serious and stuff.

...that was kinda the original attept, but than farting occured....:rolleyes: :confused:

Its just an unfortunate fact of life. :)

thats sweet of you that you are there for her and i think it is good to always be friends first before dating. i always said tohugh theres no reason to rush anything.

anyway im here and im sure others are. its nice to have more than just 1 person that u can talk to because yuo can get other viewpoints.

glad to know though that she really does have someone special in her life to help her along...

thats how i am although before it was as though i really 'needed' someone, like id die. but i have been single for several months now. something that i needed and actually i feel very comofrtable alone and have been really happy actually. guess ive grown stronger or some junk

that doesnt mean that u 2 cant grow stronger together though. :)

unfortunate? or blessed?

:D we need to fart, dont want to explode do we!!

and on a lighter note (har har -smokers joke) ....

I FARTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol :D....i gotta lighten it up im sorry for being so serious but i did want a serious answer to my question.

You sound like you have your shit together Lucid. Many at your age don't. [ I sure as hell didn't at that age ] VoB is lucky to have found such an understanding and caring young lad.






lad.....where did that word derive from?

i dont nkow. but i DO know that punk and okay are both native american terms..

PRETTY CRAZY ISNT IT?/

lad to me sounds european... im probbaly way off though

I looked it up.

Middle English ladde, perhaps of Scandinavian origin.