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heh heh gotta love the drama! we keep this forum alive and kickin'!

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Originally posted by The_Return
Ok, anyway, I think this was about time to give this up.

We were chatting over MSN, and I suggested that we have a huge arugument on here, staged and everything. But now, I think it may have gone overboard [Somethings that Ive said, aswell as some from Furball], so this is a good time to REVEAL THE HOAX:p :p

Hope you all enjoyed the show;)

you do realise you just killed furball right? ok that's it *jumps into ring,grabs vamp's head and slams it on floor of ring until he is dead* ok now i wonder if Stone COld found Hate_Breeder yet

hey, decapitated and mutilated furballs can still work, however dead penguins wouldn't work too well.

Re: How do you guys cope with stuff?

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Originally posted by The_Return
When something upsetting happens in your life, how do you deal with it? Be it something relativly minor, like getting dumped or something, or be it something major, like having loved ones die?

Just wondering.

Btw, I go into denial usually. Pretend it doesnt bother me. Hey, it works, I always stay friends with my ex's, so I guess it works...

My biggest coping methods for troubling times is taking it head on, soaking in the misery, and just flat-out accepting it and understanding it. I have had way too many of these incidents within the last few years, the hardest being a divorce from my partner of 10 years.

The marriage itself only lasted about 2 years...but it was a tough time getting over that because we really didn't have too many problems compared to most married couples. But, everything happens for a reason and I just literally listened to every possible sad song, read old letters from her, looked at pictures...cried when I needed to, and then BAM...it is now all in the past.

So, anyway...I take the same approach with everything bad in my life. I take it on...and knock it the fuck out! I also have a thing I do called "Black Tuesday," partly because I hate Tuesdays. But, I sit in complete darkness in my room, turn on some mood-heavy music, and I draw whatever comes to mind...not being able to see exactly what I'm drawing until I have finished "coping" and turn the lights back on.

This accomplishes some much needed time alone, and some insight into my feelings. Then I assess my mood and try to change things in my life that may be causing some problems.

Damn...I didn't realize I was rambling so much, sorry.

But, good topic.

Not rambling. Very good way to deal with things.

I should take a leaf out of your book...

I am gonna try!! Tackle things head on instead of hiding from the world until it goes away.

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Originally posted by The_Return
Im not coherant??

What the fuck do you call your idiotic "random noises"? What kind of shit is that? Woolooloo? Oh ya, thats really funny:rolleyes:

And what about your little Secret Window obsession? Ive always hated that movie, Im glad you're dumb as a brick so you couldnt tell that I was only pretending to enjoy it when you forced me to sit through it. Dont believe me? Ask Jay, he was there the 1st time I saw it. I hated it.

Happy now, Princess?

LMFAO!!!!!! :D

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Originally posted by Haphazard
My biggest coping methods for troubling times is taking it head on, soaking in the misery, and just flat-out accepting it and understanding it. I have had way too many of these incidents within the last few years, the hardest being a divorce from my partner of 10 years.

The marriage itself only lasted about 2 years...but it was a tough time getting over that because we really didn't have too many problems compared to most married couples. But, everything happens for a reason and I just literally listened to every possible sad song, read old letters from her, looked at pictures...cried when I needed to, and then BAM...it is now all in the past.

So, anyway...I take the same approach with everything bad in my life. I take it on...and knock it the fuck out! I also have a thing I do called "Black Tuesday," partly because I hate Tuesdays. But, I sit in complete darkness in my room, turn on some mood-heavy music, and I draw whatever comes to mind...not being able to see exactly what I'm drawing until I have finished "coping" and turn the lights back on.

This accomplishes some much needed time alone, and some insight into my feelings. Then I assess my mood and try to change things in my life that may be causing some problems.

Damn...I didn't realize I was rambling so much, sorry.

But, good topic.

Holy shit! you sound like my ex! Sure wish he would just get over it all . You seem to know yourself pretty well. :)

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Originally posted by furballothrills
1) You make more random noises than me, I just make them at the best times, and for the record, I stopped about two weeks ago.
2) You had a choice whether you wanted to go or not, I didn't force you to do anything. Oh and don't bother trying to act as though you hated it. If you did, would there be so many insiders? I know when you're laughing at something funny and when you're laughing at something when you hate it.
3) Who the fuck do you think you're calling Princess? If I were you, I'd at least go for Bitch.

Good enough for your standards, Oh Mighty One?

still LMFAO!!!!!!! :D you young'ins are quite amusing at times. You would think you two have been married for 30 years!!!!!! :D

back to our regularly scheduled program ..

how do i cope ... i look at people more unfortunate then me with the understanding thet there are these people out there that would consider my worst day their best.

it puts a real perspective on things.

try it - it works...

no matter how bad it gets .. i'm not lying in a field somewhere coated in flies, dying because i havent eaten in a week.

and on that cheery note ..

i want you people to note that i actually brought a derailed thread back on track.

Thats a first !!

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Originally posted by urgeok
back to our regularly scheduled program ..

how do i cope ... i look at people more unfortunate then me with the understanding thet there are these people out there that would consider my worst day their best.

it puts a real perspective on things.

try it - it works...

no matter how bad it gets .. i'm not lying in a field somewhere coated in flies, dying because i havent eaten in a week.

and on that cheery note ..

i want you people to note that i actually brought a derailed thread back on track.

Thats a first !!

You must have completely lost your mind finally................ the only explanation...............:eek: