The whole thing adds up to: What are you doing with your life???????? My husband and I have commitment too, and it is all about realizing that there are no perfect people, and you have to accept flaws!

My life as a kid was a nightmare, but it's over, and nothing will ever change it, so I have to forget it, or let it ruin my life forever.

No way! I deserve better and so do all of you! Sooooooooooooo Enjoy life and don't ever look back!

Thank you bloodygurl02. It is rare and a lot of my friend are divorced also. It just seems so easy nowadays for people to just say "fuck it" and and move on. Kinda sad. I guess its just the romantic in me.....yeah right...my wife would say different...seriously...it comes down to ...keep a sense of humor and ....ok it's cliche' time..."roll with the punches". It ain't all pretty and life throws a lot of curve balls......ok enough with the cliches'....OH...and a few beers don't hurt.

and u r absolutely right about that. i plan on getting out of my house and doing just that.....not looking back

Hear Hear nine. Good attitude and ......again with the cliche's...you go girl!:)

both of u r great. u have really positive attitudes. glad to have met u guys

is it just me or is every one full of love today

Hey, I'm serious, you have to live that way, or your life will be shit! From what I know of you people, you are all unique intelligent people, live for yourselves because no one else can do it for you!

Ya know ya feel the love LBM. AMEN BROTHER. My attitude is pretty much the ole "Life is Too Short" thing. I ain't wasting it with hatred.

*brakes out in to can u feel the love tonite*

right on newb right on

And a new "American Idol" is born.:D