Um, excuse me?:p I was just trying to comfort him after your violation....;)

Why don't you kids make yourselves useful and come on over to site suggestions/questions....play some HORROR SCRAMBLERS. ;)

That's funny...I got all the butter off of me. And it only took one shower. I guess you're just not scrubbing hard enough! ;):p

If you can find someone who is commited to you, I'd say go with it. If not, then they were likely not for you in the first place. If you feel the need to "change" somthing about them, they are not for you (and vice versa). Masturbate a lot and try not to worry about it too much. People generally suck as a species.
CK

I wouldn't be with someone I felt like I had to change, I just don't understand that mentality....it always leads to trouble. I have a friend that insists on trying to mold every single one of her boyfriends (and she has had a lot of boyfriends) into the type of man she thinks they should be. It always causes her heartache and the man constant aggravation. Sad thing is, I believe her intentions are good.

But you are right, people do suck. Hurts to be that disappointed by someone you love though, even if you realize it is bound to happen. Sometimes to realize that the person isn't the right one you have to go through hell to reach that conclusion....LOL...

You forgot to mention how good the masturbation part is, Jen. Love is never having to say "you sleep on the wet spot tonight" :D
CK

LMFAO!!! Yes, how could I have overlooked such a fine point....:D

Bottom line is, if Mr Right/ Miss Right was so perfect for you in the first place, you'd still be with them. If you're not still with them, guess again who he/she isn't. I always love hearing girlfriends of mine babble on about how great their new boyfriend is and to hear later from them about what an asshole he became. It's not a full moon, ladies, and he didn't suddenly transform like the wolfman. Get a clue LOL
CK

Well, yes, but it doesn't make it hurt any less when it implodes. I mean, you move on and sooner or later you realize that of course. But it takes some time to get there.

And nope, no full moon, but some men (and women) are pretty damn good at pretending they are someone they aren't, at least for awhile. Also, it is really easy to only see the good in the beginning and ignore the bad because, let's be honest, the first little while you both are on your best behavior....lol.....the "bad" part usually comes later. And some people's "bad" can be.....well, really bad...:D

How many men have you been convicted of stalking in the last 3 years, Jen ? LOL Seriously, I alwaysput all my faults up front so there are no "surprises" later on. I think if more people did that up front, they'd likely find the person they've been looking for rather than wasting time with all the BS.
CK