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Re: Random Rant...

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Originally posted by GorePhobia
Opinions on an issue everyone.....

My ex friend that i used to hook up with imed me today and said shit to me...that Im a lying piece of shit and that I am a prick...and that I am obsessed with myself and told me that I desire pitty from other people....which is all untrue....Yes I had feelings for her in the begining and we hooked up and one thing led to another and we slept together....I regreted it...I told her in the begining that I didnt want a girlfriend and that I didnt want her to have feelings for me and she said okay and still continued to want to get with me....I later backed out because I didn't want it anymore....Then 2 weeks later I met someone and I fell for her....we hooked up for a week or two then we started to go out....Now she is all pissed cause I said I didnt wanna go out with anyone but now I am....I just didnt want to tell her I didnt have feelings for her and be mean about it....I like when people like me...I dont like when people hate me so I tried doing it the nice way. Was I wrong...am I obsessed and a liar and a prick....am I a big joke like she said I am? I need some opinions from close friends I have on here....aka Rayne, Jay, MassacreMan, Kristin (fluff), Vod, Kpro, and others.....Tell me whats wrong with me and just help me out.... I need the thoughts of others to help me.....

Thank you all....

Jon

I think that in some way you should had let her know clearly that you didn't have any true feelings for her and just wanted too be friends. It's hard too say that too a friend whit out sounding mean. Just imagine it "Ummm look I have no feeling towards you whats so ever and I just wanna be friends". Read it a couple of times and analyze it. I once had a same what sort of trouble but I was on the receving end. But hey she told me straight and fair and it still hurts even today tho I have a gf whom I love. I guess what I'm triying too say too you or anyone who is reading this post is that. Theres no way in saying: "In saying I just wanna be friends and nothing more." So chin up and try having a serious talk whit her.

My 2 cents...

We know who and what we are, far better than anyone else does...Our perception of ourselves is much more important than what others think of us (That means...Who gives a damn what other people think?)...I'm going to be myself no matter what...I will only change something, about myself, if I don't like it...

If someone says something about me...I consider it this way...

A)...If it's true...I would have to agree with them...Of it's something that I don't think is good...Then I can change it...Of it's something that I don't mind being, then I just say, "Yeah...What's your point?"

B)...If it ISN'T true...Then I just consider the fact that the person saying it must not know anything about me, so their opinion doesn't matter to me AT ALL...and because it isn't true, it doesn't bother me in the least...So, it really just doesn't even register...

Either way...Because I know who and what I am...ANYTHING that anyone else says or thinks about me, cannot affect me...

I only really care about how 5 people in this entire world may be affected by anything that I may say or do...I am one of those 5 people...People who may talk shit about me, are NOT one of those 5 people...So...As I said...I REALLY couldn't care less...

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Originally posted by bloodrayne
My 2 cents...

We know who and what we are, far better than anyone else does...Our perception of ourselves is much more important than what others think of us (That means...Who gives a damn what other people think?)...I'm going to be myself no matter what...I will only change something, about myself, if I don't like it...

If someone says something about me...I consider it this way...

A)...If it's true...I would have to agree with them...Of it's something that I don't think is good...Then I can change it...Of it's something that I don't mind being, then I just say, "Yeah...What's your point?"

B)...If it ISN'T true...Then I just consider the fact that the person saying it must not know anything about me, so their opinion doesn't matter to me AT ALL...and because it isn't true, it doesn't bother me in the least...So, it really just doesn't even register...

Either way...Because I know who and what I am...ANYTHING that anyone else says or thinks about me, cannot affect me...

I only really care about how 5 people in this entire world may be affected by anything that I may say or do...I am one of those 5 people...People who may talk shit about me, are NOT one of those 5 people...So...As I said...I REALLY couldn't care less...

That's the way to be :cool:

I on the other hand, care too much what other people think. (not on the internet though)

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thank you rayne ur opinion means alot to me....no one except u and a few know me a little at least....thanks for the advice....if someone dont know me and make a wrong statement then oh well think what ya want i know the truth....thank you

why are you fighting over a blanket? There'e more next to the sofa stupid dog, get them and make your bed.:(