I wonder does it piss off a lot of gay people who eventually summon up the courage to come and people reaction is 'we all knew already'

My sister had a close friend who outed herself and the only person who was surprised was her. I remember when she told me she was 'you are not going to believe this but................' my response was 'you didnt know already?' It didnt matter that people knew (or thought they knew) we were all quite happy to wait for her to admit it if and when she was ready. I think my sisters friend was quite surprised my sisters hadnt guessed!

people still don't believe me when i tell them...its like they almost need some kind of proof. i guess its because i don't act at all flamboyant and i don't dress the part and i have a daughter etc etc

If we're talking about favourite "types" this would be mine, the one that's not a walking stereotype. Congrats for not feeling the need to force your sexual orientation (forgive the pun) down peoples throats.

lol that was indeed a nice pun there. yeah i couldn't agree with you more. its no worse than someone who tries to hold your hand and pray with you while your trying to buy a cheeseburger or something

Does it really bother you if some one is very camp or has over the top mannerisms?

Oh its a big difference...

It is because of lack of hormones that feminine gays are flamboyant. Nobody tries to be overly gay. There are lots of straight guys in the world too that youd never think were straight because of a lisp or an over use in hand gestures in conversation, etc etc. Gays dont force anything on you. It is called tolerance. Religious people are strung up with their inflated egos and truth be told, they dont know shit about what theyre trying to preach if they think the church is so strong on the stance against homosexuals. There is nothing in the bible that says its wrong to be gay. People are confused. What they think is an interpretation that homosexuality is wrong, is actually a story about why not sharing hospitality is wrong. That is why Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed. Nobody showed hospitality. It would actually shock me to find some "Christian" toting wannabe that has actually read the bible word for word.

theres no need for anyone to act like a total flamer. its very annoying and shit like that is what attracts homo haters like a moth to a light. and in my personal opinion just because your gay does not give you the right to act like a girl...grow a pair for fuck sakes. and as far as the whole cross dressing thing goes and the im a woman in a mans body and shit...yeah thats all beyond my understanding and i think its fucking crazy and stupid

Wow - I kinda thought that was kinda a weird attitude but I remeber hearing this from a lot of scene clones too..

Personally, if some one wants to act effeminate and that is how they want to express their sexuality than I can't see anything wrong with that.

You realize most cross-dressers are straight, right? look it up.